How to Get Your Ex Back So Fast Your Ex Won"t Know What Hit Them! 5 Stunning Tips You Must Know!
Did you know that you can pull your ex back really fast? It is all a simple matter of knowing your ex's psychology.
Many people do not actually understand how others interpret their actions, and I am here as an intermediary to show you exactly what you should avoid.
Once you know what not to do, and why your ex sees it that way, you can easily do the right things to get your ex back.
Here is what you must avoid at all costs if you want to win your ex back...
1.
Arguing and bickering- This will only make your ex literally hate you.
Reason being is that they want some peace of mind and space from problems; and all arguing does is go over problems again and even create more.
2.
Blaming- Always telling your ex it was his/her fault for everything will not get your ex back.
Your ex may feel guilty deep inside, but will show a harsh attitude to you on the outside because no one likes being told everything is their fault.
Admit your mistakes and forgive, otherwise you cannot actually move on and your ex wont take you back if you don't.
3.
Trying to force your ex to take you back by using reverse psychology or blackmailing- This means you would either try and harm your ex or yourself if he/she didn't take you back.
Some people threaten their life so their ex does; while others simply say things like "you won't find anything better, and no one will love you like I do"...
these don't work and only make your ex think you are seriously mentally ill.
4.
Bothering your ex- This means you are calling him/her more than any normal person would, in excess of 1 or more times a day is even too much after a breakup.
Your ex wants some space, and will feel bothered when their phone is ringing every second; or their email inbox is full.
5.
Boosting your ex's ego- While those other things are obviously negative, some people try the really positive approach and tell their ex exactly how great they are.
You may tell your ex things like "i cant live without you, you are so great, you are fantastic...
you are...
you are this...
you are that...
" you get the point...
The reason this doesn't work, is because your ex's ego becomes so high with all of this attention, that he/she thinks they are so great that they can do better than you.
That is the last thing you want your ex thinking, so do not flatter your ex with compliments anymore.
Many people do not actually understand how others interpret their actions, and I am here as an intermediary to show you exactly what you should avoid.
Once you know what not to do, and why your ex sees it that way, you can easily do the right things to get your ex back.
Here is what you must avoid at all costs if you want to win your ex back...
1.
Arguing and bickering- This will only make your ex literally hate you.
Reason being is that they want some peace of mind and space from problems; and all arguing does is go over problems again and even create more.
2.
Blaming- Always telling your ex it was his/her fault for everything will not get your ex back.
Your ex may feel guilty deep inside, but will show a harsh attitude to you on the outside because no one likes being told everything is their fault.
Admit your mistakes and forgive, otherwise you cannot actually move on and your ex wont take you back if you don't.
3.
Trying to force your ex to take you back by using reverse psychology or blackmailing- This means you would either try and harm your ex or yourself if he/she didn't take you back.
Some people threaten their life so their ex does; while others simply say things like "you won't find anything better, and no one will love you like I do"...
these don't work and only make your ex think you are seriously mentally ill.
4.
Bothering your ex- This means you are calling him/her more than any normal person would, in excess of 1 or more times a day is even too much after a breakup.
Your ex wants some space, and will feel bothered when their phone is ringing every second; or their email inbox is full.
5.
Boosting your ex's ego- While those other things are obviously negative, some people try the really positive approach and tell their ex exactly how great they are.
You may tell your ex things like "i cant live without you, you are so great, you are fantastic...
you are...
you are this...
you are that...
" you get the point...
The reason this doesn't work, is because your ex's ego becomes so high with all of this attention, that he/she thinks they are so great that they can do better than you.
That is the last thing you want your ex thinking, so do not flatter your ex with compliments anymore.
