You want to know what the single most difficult thing to overcome is when you're trying to win back the love of a significant other? It's a fact that many times you are so smothered in your own misery that it is impossible for you to be able to see what the problem really is.
Take it from me, I experienced a devastating break up not all that long ago yet I was able to get my ex back when I simply stepped back from the situation and allowed nature to take its course.
The first thing that I did was to identify why the break up happened in the first place.
I was surprised to learn that there was a lot more going on in the background than what I thought.
I never would've known these things, had I not enlisted the help of a trusted companion that was able to be honest with me about the situation.
Not only was I able to see what went wrong, I was able to identify a few places where changes needed to be made in my personality.
Another thing that helped me to get my ex back is that instead of wallowing in self misery and contacting them, begging them to come back, I made it look as if I was getting back to my life again.
I started going out with friends, having a few drinks and enjoying myself.
Of course, I made sure that I was in the area of my ex so that he could observe this as well.
Eventually, he began to take an interest in me again and my patience won out.
This is something that can work for you as well.