Do you want to get your husband back but you worry that you stand little chance of winning him back because he appears to have already moved on? Is your husband already seeing another woman and you think that you can't get him back? The truth is that there are things that you can do to improve your chances of getting him back if you can be patient, understanding and if you understand what is going on inside his head.
The fact is that you probably know your husband better than anyone on the face of this planet.
That is one thing that you have going for you that his new girlfriend doesn't.
But it is even more important that you understand his motives and the real reasons why he left you and leverage this information to help you to get him back from the other woman.
Patience - You might be terribly torn up and emotional about your breakup and even in this day and age, there is still a stigma that goes along with divorce.
You probably never would have married him if you knew that he would leave you and that you would have to go through a divorce.
In spite of the pain, anguish and anger it is still important that you be patient in your attempt to get him back.
Rushing things or pushing him will only make things worse and extend the amount of time it is going to take to win him back.
Try to keep your emotions in check and avoid talking with him when you are really angry or emotional since you might wind up saying something that will further drive a wedge between the two of you.
Avoid volatile topics that might cause you to blow up or break down in tears.
If you are feeling emotional just don't answer the phone if he calls and don't call him when you are feeling these emotions.
Understanding - Understanding that the situation is what it is right now is important not only for your own sanity but also for the future success of your marriage.
Yes, he has made a huge mistake that he will no doubt regret in the near future and you can sleep on that one.
Once the reality settles in and he realizes that his new girlfriend isn't everything that he dreamed of you will know it.
And he will come to this realization sooner or later.
You see, most rebound relationships wind up going down in a firey mess.
Typically, once the honeymoon period is done with and your husband and his new sweety start to really spend a lot of time together they will both realize that they are very much different than they thought when he was thinking that the grass was greener on the other side and she was thinking that he was desirable because he was a married man.
There are many single women that are very attracted to the stability of a married man and they are attracted by the challenge of wanting someone that they can't have because he is married.
The fact is that she made him feel a certain way that being in a marriage with you simply didn't provide.
He saw the offer for something exciting and new very attractive because she made him feel powerful and handsome and desirable again.
Perhaps she played off of his emotions and comforted him when he was annoyed at you for some small thing and she catered to his emotions making him feel young and attractive and understood.
All of these are key emotions that you should try to bring out in him in your attempt to get him back and they are the emotions that will help you to win him back when his relationship with his girlfriend falls apart.
Keep in mind that it is important to be patient and think about how you can make him feel wanted and understood and before long he will be eating out of your hand.
After all, you know him better than anyone else, especially the other woman.
Remain positive and dig deep and it is very possible to win you husband back.