Stop Your Divorce Or Break Up - Learn the Right Way to Deal With a Difficult Husband Or Boyfriend
You can stop your divorce or break up with your husband or boyfriend if you will decide to learn the right way to deal with them.
Most relationship or marital conflicts results from lack of communication and understanding.
You love your husband or boyfriend because he treats you like a real woman but he can sometimes be difficult.
You are about to learn the right way to deal with your difficult husband or boyfriend.
You will agree with me that your husband or boyfriend sometimes cause you frustration, anger, anxiety and concern because of his difficult approach to issues, however there are ways you can handle the situation.
Here are 4 suggestions you can use to deal with your difficult husband or boyfriend.
1.
Change Yourself One of the ways you can deal with your difficult husband or boyfriend is to change yourself.
You may not agree with this suggestion, but if you do some self-evaluation you will come to see how you may also be the cause of his difficult behavior.
We are sometimes blind to our own shortcomings.
2.
Change your husband or boyfriend Another way you can deal with your difficult husband or boyfriend is to find ways to change your husband or boyfriend.
You will agree that most of us feel justified in our behavior.
None of us intend to behave arbitrarily or irrationally.
We always have a reason for acting the way we do.
Attempting to force your husband or boyfriend to change may not be successful.
No one will change anything about themselves until and unless they choose to do so.
3.
Decide to put up with your husband or boyfriend The third way is to: "Tolerate your husband or boyfriend.
" The only thing that accepting things the way they are accomplishes is to postpone a confrontation.
Although this course of action (or inaction) appears to avoid a confrontation, in fact what it does is eliminate any chance of dialogue and replaces it with a certain confrontation down the road.
Even though this path is frequently taken, it has some far-reaching unhappy consequences.
4.
Work to understand your husband's motivation The fourth suggestion is for you to work to understanding your husband's motivation.
This means you have to become a leader and an effective communicator.
This is about taking the time to understand your husband's motivation for acting the way he does.
If you are effective at this, you will be able to either help him to change his perspective on things or help him to move on to something that better suits him.
This is about helping your husband grow and maximize his talents.
It is about being compassionate and strong at the same time.
It is about understanding rather than telling.
You only need to ask your husband or boyfriend why he acts the way he does and he may be happy to let you know.
Just keep asking to get to the root of the problem so that you can help shift his perspective.
Take a leadership role in your relationship and you will be able to change your husband's approach to issues and keep your marriage from a divorce or break up.
Try it.
Most relationship or marital conflicts results from lack of communication and understanding.
You love your husband or boyfriend because he treats you like a real woman but he can sometimes be difficult.
You are about to learn the right way to deal with your difficult husband or boyfriend.
You will agree with me that your husband or boyfriend sometimes cause you frustration, anger, anxiety and concern because of his difficult approach to issues, however there are ways you can handle the situation.
Here are 4 suggestions you can use to deal with your difficult husband or boyfriend.
1.
Change Yourself One of the ways you can deal with your difficult husband or boyfriend is to change yourself.
You may not agree with this suggestion, but if you do some self-evaluation you will come to see how you may also be the cause of his difficult behavior.
We are sometimes blind to our own shortcomings.
2.
Change your husband or boyfriend Another way you can deal with your difficult husband or boyfriend is to find ways to change your husband or boyfriend.
You will agree that most of us feel justified in our behavior.
None of us intend to behave arbitrarily or irrationally.
We always have a reason for acting the way we do.
Attempting to force your husband or boyfriend to change may not be successful.
No one will change anything about themselves until and unless they choose to do so.
3.
Decide to put up with your husband or boyfriend The third way is to: "Tolerate your husband or boyfriend.
" The only thing that accepting things the way they are accomplishes is to postpone a confrontation.
Although this course of action (or inaction) appears to avoid a confrontation, in fact what it does is eliminate any chance of dialogue and replaces it with a certain confrontation down the road.
Even though this path is frequently taken, it has some far-reaching unhappy consequences.
4.
Work to understand your husband's motivation The fourth suggestion is for you to work to understanding your husband's motivation.
This means you have to become a leader and an effective communicator.
This is about taking the time to understand your husband's motivation for acting the way he does.
If you are effective at this, you will be able to either help him to change his perspective on things or help him to move on to something that better suits him.
This is about helping your husband grow and maximize his talents.
It is about being compassionate and strong at the same time.
It is about understanding rather than telling.
You only need to ask your husband or boyfriend why he acts the way he does and he may be happy to let you know.
Just keep asking to get to the root of the problem so that you can help shift his perspective.
Take a leadership role in your relationship and you will be able to change your husband's approach to issues and keep your marriage from a divorce or break up.
Try it.
