Do you want your ex back? You probably do or else you wouldn't be reading this article.
And I know how unbearable the pain can be.
When I broke up with my boyfriend of 7 years just a month before our wedding, I remember the horrible feeling of desperation that was so intense that I had trouble waking up in the morning.
There was no reason for me to get out of bed.
There was nothing out there for me.
All was pointless and nothing could give me any pleasure.
My life was over, or that's what I thought at the moment.
I did everything I could to get him back, but I failed.
Now I understand that all the things I did, actually pushed him away even more, instead of luring him back to me.
I begged, I cried, I accused, I even threatened him and of course none of these things worked! I didn't know then, what I know now.
This man hadn't stopped loving me.
In fact he still had feelings for me.
The only problem was that..
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he was bored! Our life together was so predictable and he (thought) he knew me like the back of his hand.
There was nothing mysterious or exciting about me.
I was just someone he took for granted.
Unfortunately, this is the case with most break-ups.
Sure, sometimes people separate because they are incompatible, but isn't it true that we are willing to forgive almost anything to our partners, as long as we are still in love with them? And boredom is love's greatest enemy.
So, the 1 secret to get your ex back is to...
Reinvent yourself! Become a new person, different from the one he dumped.
Groom yourself, do something different with your hair, buy some new clothes, get a new hobby! Make him wonder if he really knows you.
Make him second-guess his decision.
Maybe you are not the one he thought you were, maybe dumping you was the biggest mistake of his life.
This is the last thing he expects.
He thinks that you are going to be devastated and depressed.
Instant shock and jealousy will be his reaction!