Building Your Perfect Wedding Ceremony - Celebrating Your Venue in the Invocation
Where you get married should say a lot about what you value as a couple.
Are you religious and marrying in a church? Are you nature lovers and having your ceremony in the midst of a grove of trees or on a cliff overlooking a favorite valley? Is there something about this venue that represents either your history or who you are as a couple today? Has every member of one of your families been married here? Are you a couple who finds meaning in the outdoors and a stand of redwoods seemed perfect to you? Are you golfers and the club-house is a place you are often found? All of these are good reasons for choosing your venue.
Even if the main reason you chose your venue was availability, start creating the story to tell.
"It didn't matter to us where we married.
It mattered only that we would get married and that you, our beloved community would be here to witness the promises we would make to one another.
This venue seemed the perfect size to hold the celebration we wanted.
This place will now become one of our most favorite spots.
It will be beloved because we married here.
It will be beloved because as we were marrying we could look up and see your faces and know we are truly loved and supported.
" Use the invocation in your wedding ceremony to tell people why this place is special to you.
Make the connections so that they can make the connections and understand why you chose to exchange your wedding vows here.
Selecting a place that is part of your life is a great way to keep reinforcing your marriage.
Every time you visit, your brain will remember, "I was married here.
" You'll stand in that very spot and hold hands and remember, "I married my beloved right here.
" That kind of reinforcement helps you remember your wedding vows.
That helps you keep them.
It helps you remember why you made your wedding vows.
And that makes them a joy to keep.
Tip: You want to use every advantage you can find to start your marriage off right and keep it flourishing.
Choose a place that has meaning for your wedding venue.
Tell your crowd why you love it.
Visit often and reinforce it's meaning by retelling the story.
All of these will keep you moving toward a healthy and happy marriage.
Are you religious and marrying in a church? Are you nature lovers and having your ceremony in the midst of a grove of trees or on a cliff overlooking a favorite valley? Is there something about this venue that represents either your history or who you are as a couple today? Has every member of one of your families been married here? Are you a couple who finds meaning in the outdoors and a stand of redwoods seemed perfect to you? Are you golfers and the club-house is a place you are often found? All of these are good reasons for choosing your venue.
Even if the main reason you chose your venue was availability, start creating the story to tell.
"It didn't matter to us where we married.
It mattered only that we would get married and that you, our beloved community would be here to witness the promises we would make to one another.
This venue seemed the perfect size to hold the celebration we wanted.
This place will now become one of our most favorite spots.
It will be beloved because we married here.
It will be beloved because as we were marrying we could look up and see your faces and know we are truly loved and supported.
" Use the invocation in your wedding ceremony to tell people why this place is special to you.
Make the connections so that they can make the connections and understand why you chose to exchange your wedding vows here.
Selecting a place that is part of your life is a great way to keep reinforcing your marriage.
Every time you visit, your brain will remember, "I was married here.
" You'll stand in that very spot and hold hands and remember, "I married my beloved right here.
" That kind of reinforcement helps you remember your wedding vows.
That helps you keep them.
It helps you remember why you made your wedding vows.
And that makes them a joy to keep.
Tip: You want to use every advantage you can find to start your marriage off right and keep it flourishing.
Choose a place that has meaning for your wedding venue.
Tell your crowd why you love it.
Visit often and reinforce it's meaning by retelling the story.
All of these will keep you moving toward a healthy and happy marriage.
