Christian Relationship Advice For Couples
Giving advice through an article without knowing who the reader is, the details of your particular situation and your partner's view on the situation is hard. Though I will try to give some general advice in the following information to try to help you live up to Christian moral values.
1) Remember that you have a relationship with God in your life. By nurturing your relationship with God, all of your other relationships will be influenced by your relationship to God as well.
2) Discuss your relationship with God and ask Him for wisdom and guidance
3) Ask other mature Christians that have been married for a long time for their advice.
4) Stick to your Christian values. Don't do something just because other's don't think you are cool enough or to satisfy someone else.
5) Talk to elders, your pastor or members of your church with many years of experience that you feel comfortable with and can ask for advice and tips from. Their years of experience with walking by God's side has often taught them to speak from great wisdom.
6) Reading general self help books and relationship advice can be useful, but many things will be a bit different when you see them from a biblical perspective. Therefor I recommend finding some books written by other Christians to get good advice.
7) Have Christian friends and hang out with other Christians. Christian friends can offer you a third person's view that is in line with Christian values. Talking about your relationship problems and questions with fellow Christians can be very useful.
8) Pray with your partner. Pray to God for love, guidance and strength. Often couples don't realize the power of prayer, however research has shown that couples that pray together have an increased chance of maintaining a happy and lasting marriage.
9) Communicate and be hones about your thoughts and feelings. Being capable of talking openly about your thoughts and emotions is a key ingredient in a happy relationship.
10) Learn to communicate effectively. Truly listen to your partner and what she or he has to tell to you. Allow him or her to talk about her/his feelings without arguing or judging them, just pay attention.
No matter if you have been married for years or are in a new relationship, the relationship can get complicated. We all have arguments in our relationship that needs to be dealt with to grow.
By using some of the above Christian relationship advice you have a bigger chance of building a more intimate and loving relationship. Some of the advice in this article you may think is obvious, but in daily life when things get busy and time gets short, these things are easily forgotten and you end up not praying together as often as you would wish. Take the time to make God a priority in your relationship and you will experience change in other areas of your life as well, including your relationship with your partner as well as other people.
1) Remember that you have a relationship with God in your life. By nurturing your relationship with God, all of your other relationships will be influenced by your relationship to God as well.
2) Discuss your relationship with God and ask Him for wisdom and guidance
3) Ask other mature Christians that have been married for a long time for their advice.
4) Stick to your Christian values. Don't do something just because other's don't think you are cool enough or to satisfy someone else.
5) Talk to elders, your pastor or members of your church with many years of experience that you feel comfortable with and can ask for advice and tips from. Their years of experience with walking by God's side has often taught them to speak from great wisdom.
6) Reading general self help books and relationship advice can be useful, but many things will be a bit different when you see them from a biblical perspective. Therefor I recommend finding some books written by other Christians to get good advice.
7) Have Christian friends and hang out with other Christians. Christian friends can offer you a third person's view that is in line with Christian values. Talking about your relationship problems and questions with fellow Christians can be very useful.
8) Pray with your partner. Pray to God for love, guidance and strength. Often couples don't realize the power of prayer, however research has shown that couples that pray together have an increased chance of maintaining a happy and lasting marriage.
9) Communicate and be hones about your thoughts and feelings. Being capable of talking openly about your thoughts and emotions is a key ingredient in a happy relationship.
10) Learn to communicate effectively. Truly listen to your partner and what she or he has to tell to you. Allow him or her to talk about her/his feelings without arguing or judging them, just pay attention.
No matter if you have been married for years or are in a new relationship, the relationship can get complicated. We all have arguments in our relationship that needs to be dealt with to grow.
By using some of the above Christian relationship advice you have a bigger chance of building a more intimate and loving relationship. Some of the advice in this article you may think is obvious, but in daily life when things get busy and time gets short, these things are easily forgotten and you end up not praying together as often as you would wish. Take the time to make God a priority in your relationship and you will experience change in other areas of your life as well, including your relationship with your partner as well as other people.
