The First Cut Is the Deepest
We all experience pain in love at some point in our lives, and there is no doubt that the first time this happens it hurts the most.
The first cut we receive in love is definitely the deepest.
It is a new fresh pain that makes us ache inside with regret and rejection.
The feeling of rejection is the hardest one to get over.
To know you were not good enough for someone is demoralising and painful.
But once you get over this first initial pain there is only one way back to the road of recovery.
It may be long and arduous at times but once you are back at the top of it, you feel on top of the world.
Whatever the reasons were for your break up, and each are always different, there is no doubt that someone in the world has experienced the same pain.
Each of these different pains is equally as stressful and painful, and there is no quick way back to yourself.
Time is a great healer and distancing yourself away from this Ex is a way in which you can speed this healer up.
In this day of social networking websites and mobile phones it has become all too easy to slip back a peg or two.
Contacting your ex is too easy nowadays and by doing so, you take one step forward and two steps back.
You have to let go in order to move on.
Accept the decision that has been made and you can't start to work on yourself.
No one ever says something like this is easy, and the months after your first break up are the hardest in your life, when it comes to love.
It comes with the incentive however that you will never feel that pain again.
You will never be as hurt or as down as you were after the first one.
You will experience pain again but not to that degree.
Life is fun and you need to experience it.
Being down in the dumps all the time is not the way to do that.
You need to ensure that you are able to get back on the bike as quick as possible and to do that you need to give yourself hope.
Go out there on nights out with your friends and see what happens.
The only way is up, and you can go to heights you never have before.
The first cut we receive in love is definitely the deepest.
It is a new fresh pain that makes us ache inside with regret and rejection.
The feeling of rejection is the hardest one to get over.
To know you were not good enough for someone is demoralising and painful.
But once you get over this first initial pain there is only one way back to the road of recovery.
It may be long and arduous at times but once you are back at the top of it, you feel on top of the world.
Whatever the reasons were for your break up, and each are always different, there is no doubt that someone in the world has experienced the same pain.
Each of these different pains is equally as stressful and painful, and there is no quick way back to yourself.
Time is a great healer and distancing yourself away from this Ex is a way in which you can speed this healer up.
In this day of social networking websites and mobile phones it has become all too easy to slip back a peg or two.
Contacting your ex is too easy nowadays and by doing so, you take one step forward and two steps back.
You have to let go in order to move on.
Accept the decision that has been made and you can't start to work on yourself.
No one ever says something like this is easy, and the months after your first break up are the hardest in your life, when it comes to love.
It comes with the incentive however that you will never feel that pain again.
You will never be as hurt or as down as you were after the first one.
You will experience pain again but not to that degree.
Life is fun and you need to experience it.
Being down in the dumps all the time is not the way to do that.
You need to ensure that you are able to get back on the bike as quick as possible and to do that you need to give yourself hope.
Go out there on nights out with your friends and see what happens.
The only way is up, and you can go to heights you never have before.
