Single Woman Looking for Eligible Bachelor
If you think online dating for a male baby boomer is a bummer, just think if you are a woman? Now then, over the last few months, I've spoken with women about the online dating scene, each has horror stories to tell.
Yes, there are success stories, but it takes work, sometimes 10-20 pre-screened dates before these women find what they are looking for, and maybe it wears some of them down and they allow their list of required attributes a little too much slack in finding their proverbial soul mate.
The other day, one professional lady explained the things she was looking for in a male friend to start, and perhaps more if things worked out.
She wanted a man with strength of character without emotional baggage, someone who was fun loving, empathetic, good looking, in good health.
Someone willing to be her friend, a good friend, maybe a best friend first, and of course, these are the things all women desire in a man, and yet, so many men fall so short.
Being a friend, a good friend will be tough for a man just meeting a single woman, there is so much to catch up on, to get adjusted too, to get acquainted with, do you see that point? Women have lists of things they are looking for, often much more emotional than guys have.
If you are a man and want to meet your soul mate, without getting too mushy into all that emotional stuff, you need to be thinking here.
Many men get tripped up in all the passionate emotional issues, they don't seem to get it - they don't understand women or what they want, desire and need.
It's no surprise either, as men and women are quite different, and it's hard to find the proper compatibility.
Still, without this understanding, finding a long-term relationship with the right woman isn't likely.
If you are a man who doesn't get it yet, there is still hope, but you are going to have to listen up and get with the program, otherwise, some other guy is going to run off with your future soul mate and you'll just continue your lonely life.
Women often complain about men, and their ridiculous nonsense, I guess it's our fault, so maybe it's time you admit it, and find out how to deal with this on their emotional level, once you do, you'll have plenty of options, as there are 100s of single women out there in your immediate area, waiting for their version of Mr.
Right, and you need to be right on queue.
Please consider all this and think on it.
Yes, there are success stories, but it takes work, sometimes 10-20 pre-screened dates before these women find what they are looking for, and maybe it wears some of them down and they allow their list of required attributes a little too much slack in finding their proverbial soul mate.
The other day, one professional lady explained the things she was looking for in a male friend to start, and perhaps more if things worked out.
She wanted a man with strength of character without emotional baggage, someone who was fun loving, empathetic, good looking, in good health.
Someone willing to be her friend, a good friend, maybe a best friend first, and of course, these are the things all women desire in a man, and yet, so many men fall so short.
Being a friend, a good friend will be tough for a man just meeting a single woman, there is so much to catch up on, to get adjusted too, to get acquainted with, do you see that point? Women have lists of things they are looking for, often much more emotional than guys have.
If you are a man and want to meet your soul mate, without getting too mushy into all that emotional stuff, you need to be thinking here.
Many men get tripped up in all the passionate emotional issues, they don't seem to get it - they don't understand women or what they want, desire and need.
It's no surprise either, as men and women are quite different, and it's hard to find the proper compatibility.
Still, without this understanding, finding a long-term relationship with the right woman isn't likely.
If you are a man who doesn't get it yet, there is still hope, but you are going to have to listen up and get with the program, otherwise, some other guy is going to run off with your future soul mate and you'll just continue your lonely life.
Women often complain about men, and their ridiculous nonsense, I guess it's our fault, so maybe it's time you admit it, and find out how to deal with this on their emotional level, once you do, you'll have plenty of options, as there are 100s of single women out there in your immediate area, waiting for their version of Mr.
Right, and you need to be right on queue.
Please consider all this and think on it.
