Thinking of breaking up with your partner but you do not want to hurt your partner? Is that possible? There are many reasons that lead to the feeling of wanting to break up, the common ones are, "we are better as friends", "she depends on me too much", "I need more personal space and time", or, you might just prefer to be single rather than in a relationship.
Whatever the reason is, breaking up is never an easy thing to do, not for guys, as they fear how their girlfriend would respond.
Because of that, many guys choose to stay to hold on with the current relationship that he has no passionate for.
But the truth is, none of us likes their loved one to stay with them just because they pity them.
Yes, you probably feel bad because you hurt her, but your actions do not cause any benefit to her.
Your heart does not belong to her, so what if you are still there? There is no way to not hurt anyone when you want to break up.
After all, when a relationship starts, you are already taking the risk of facing break ups in future.
The best way to decrease the pain of your partner is to not delay the break up.
Once you decide to give up this relationship, you need to communicate with your partner and end the relationship fast.
It makes no benefit for your partner when you delay it.
Well, you may think that you do not want to cause any pain to her, you cannot stand her tears, or you are even afraid that she cannot live without you.
The fact is, she can.
The more you pretend, the more you hurt her.
In conclusion, there is no possible way to not hurt your loved one during a break up.
However, what you can do is that is to communicate nicely and end the relationship in a more peaceful way.