Do you feel that you and your ex boyfriend have a future together? Has your mind been racing with questions such as "how can I get my ex boyfriend back?" Another concern is that you don't want to appear needy and desperate by begging for your ex to return to you.
Well, there are ways of pulling your ex boyfriend back to you without you having to say much at all.
In fact, when it comes to recent breakups, I always advocate making as little contact as possible for a period - about 3 to 4 weeks should do it.
This means no calling, text messaging, emailing or even seeing him in person (whether by 'accidentally' bumping into him or not).
There are exceptions - for instance if you can not avoid him at class or work, but other than that you should try not to reach him at all.
There are many good reasons for this.
First of all: 1) People want what they do not have.
'Absence makes the heart grow fonder', as they say.
Without you in his life, he will start to miss you and realise what he has lost.
If you are constantly around him, even as a friend, there is no chance of this happening.
2) On top of this, it gives you a chance to work on yourself.
I don't mean just physically - though it might do a world of good to make yourself over in some fashion.
No, it's also about boosting your own self confidence.
Go out and spend time with your friends and family first.
Hit the town and have a great time - push your feelings aside for the night.
If you get some male attention, then that will get your ex jealous.
It may be a little sneaky, but this is exactly what you want.
You do not have to date anybody if you don't want to, but the more attention you get the better.
This is how you can get back into his mind.
When you feel the time is right, you can make casual contact again.
However, there are certain ways of doing this and you can make big mistakes if you don't know what you are doing.