How To Pick Up Beautiful Women - Get Her Turned On First
When you want to pick up beautiful women, it's important to get her turned on as soon as possible.
I'm talking about the actual mental and physical processes that take her from being attracted to you to wanting to leap into bed.
It's a lot easier than most guys think.
The process of arousal is something that happens in both the body and mind.
Her body warms up and juices get flowing.
There are actual physical changes that happen in her body (just like yours) when she gets aroused.
Mentally, it's all about fantasies, teasing and ideas that are going to get her more physically turned on.
There are a couple of reasons why this is such an important topic.
First of all, she has to be turned on physically for things to progress to the sexual level.
Turning her on will also get you there faster.
The idea is to look for signs of attraction, which are kind of like the green light, and use those opportunities to get her amped up.
One way to conceptualize this is that men are like a light switch.
You're either on or off.
Women are more like lights that have a dimmer switch.
They need to be gradually and slowly turned on over a longer stretch of time.
It's going to take a bit longer and it requires her to be comfortable.
Lots of guys try, but she's only going to let the one she likes do this to her.
Attraction and arousal are different.
It's totally possible for a girl to be attracted to you but not sexually aroused.
She may like you personally or even physically, but she's still not thinking about sex at all in connection with you.
On the other end of the spectrum there are women who are in heat.
They want it now and anybody will do.
Most of the women you're going to meet fall somewhere in between.
Either way, you're going to need to be turning that dimmer switch during the course of your encounter with her.
The idea is to have good timing.
Feel things out, wait for the signs, and turn the switch a little when she gives you the opportunity.
Watch for signs that you've gone too far, and when you have, release the tension with some humor or a non-sequitur.
Going too fast is going to freak her out and waiting too long is going to cool her out too much.
When you want to pick up beautiful women, it's all about reading their signs and taking control of their arousal.
I'm talking about the actual mental and physical processes that take her from being attracted to you to wanting to leap into bed.
It's a lot easier than most guys think.
The process of arousal is something that happens in both the body and mind.
Her body warms up and juices get flowing.
There are actual physical changes that happen in her body (just like yours) when she gets aroused.
Mentally, it's all about fantasies, teasing and ideas that are going to get her more physically turned on.
There are a couple of reasons why this is such an important topic.
First of all, she has to be turned on physically for things to progress to the sexual level.
Turning her on will also get you there faster.
The idea is to look for signs of attraction, which are kind of like the green light, and use those opportunities to get her amped up.
One way to conceptualize this is that men are like a light switch.
You're either on or off.
Women are more like lights that have a dimmer switch.
They need to be gradually and slowly turned on over a longer stretch of time.
It's going to take a bit longer and it requires her to be comfortable.
Lots of guys try, but she's only going to let the one she likes do this to her.
Attraction and arousal are different.
It's totally possible for a girl to be attracted to you but not sexually aroused.
She may like you personally or even physically, but she's still not thinking about sex at all in connection with you.
On the other end of the spectrum there are women who are in heat.
They want it now and anybody will do.
Most of the women you're going to meet fall somewhere in between.
Either way, you're going to need to be turning that dimmer switch during the course of your encounter with her.
The idea is to have good timing.
Feel things out, wait for the signs, and turn the switch a little when she gives you the opportunity.
Watch for signs that you've gone too far, and when you have, release the tension with some humor or a non-sequitur.
Going too fast is going to freak her out and waiting too long is going to cool her out too much.
When you want to pick up beautiful women, it's all about reading their signs and taking control of their arousal.
