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He Is Cheating! How Your Intuition Guides You

You have noticed numerous signs that indicate your husband may be cheating.  But the biggest sign of all is your own intuition. What is your intuition telling you? If you listen closely, you will know if you need to spend time and money to discover the truth about whether or not your husband is cheating.

If you are suspicious, it's usually because you have been given reason to be. Something's not right and you feel it in your gut. You may not be able to put your finger on it, but you know something's going on. As women we have strong intuitions and most of the time, like 99% of the time, they are right on the mark. You should trust that feeling. It's your body's way of saying: "Hold up, wait minute, you might want to check this out!" Always heed that warning. Your intuition tries to keep you safe and out of harm's way. You just have to pay attention. Do not be concerned that you are overly suspicious, find out why you are suspicious.

You know you should trust your man. You want to trust him. The thought that he may be cheating on you is devastating. You stop thinking about it. Then something is said, or not said. Something happens or does not happen. That little sneaky ball of intuition floats to the surface once more, only this time; it's twice as large and twice as strong. This will not be a beat down by you, and you know you can't win; surrender is your only option.

Your own intuition can be very clear and you should heed its advice. Forget about the moral issue of whether or not it's right or wrong to spy on your husband. Continuing to live with someone who is cheating on you is much worse and much more devastating. His actions could be concealed for years on end. You may never know. Obviously your intuition is telling you something's wrong. You need to take the necessary steps to discover the truth, no matter how painful.

If you think he is cheating, you have several options:

1. You can hire a private investigator. This is the best way to get documented proof if divorce is an option.
2. You can monitor his computer usage. Most affairs are begun online. The internet makes it easy to meet and cheat. There are many websites dedicated to married people who want to have affairs.
3. GPS tracking will capture the addresses he visits and the length of time he was parked there.  With the GPS report, you can pinpoint his whereabouts. Did he visit a hotel or a swanky restaurant on the other side of town?
4. You can install spy cameras in your home to catch him in the act. This is especially useful if you travel a lot. It's amazing how many men will actually cheat in the marital bed they share with their wife.

   Knowing the truth empowers you to make decisions that are in your best interest and the best interest of your family. Don't spend another day in the dark wondering if he is cheating. You know something's not right. You need to know, and you have a right to know what that something is.


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