Name-calling is not recommended when you are going through a divorce.
This is only childish and going to add to your stress levels.
You should not call your spouse or anyone else in the family names.
You need to be calm and collected so that you can get through this difficult time and make it as easy on yourself as possible.
Never try and start trouble with your ex.
You should be civil to each other and make sure that you are keeping your inner strength so that you are not tempted to start a fight.
You should keep your cool and remember that it is always better when you are able to stay calm when you are discussing anything with the ex spouse.
You want to make your point across without getting upset or making the other person mad.
You need to remember that you have to be part of this person's life for the rest of your life so you need to be good.
If you have children together and you are now getting divorced you need to be extra good.
You never want to say anything bad about the divorce in front of the children no matter what age they are.
You have a responsibility to protect these children and you do not want to put their emotional well being at risk for anything.
You need to keep them out of the fight if there is one as much as possible so that they are not hurt in this battle.
Make sure that you are communicating with your ex.
You need to make sure that you are sitting down and discussing what is going on in the divorce.
If you have lawyers, you should make sure that they are present as well.
It is always good to be fair in a divorce, but you do not want to settle for anything less that what you deserve.
This is only fair and it is important that you keep in mind that it is not about revenge or being bitter.
It is about getting on with your life and starting over.
Keeping the peace is important so that this can go by as quickly and as painless as possible.