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Modern Tips on How to Spice Up Long Distance Relationship

In this era of problems prone world and high level of boring relationships among lovers, long distance relationship is on the increase. People in long distance relationship are still struggling to spice it up because of the distance. In this article, I will share with you some of the tips which can surely help spice things up for any long distance relationship.

Long distance relationship is quite difficult to handle especially in this financial troubling time. Well, if you look at the other side of this development, you will notice that the present era provides us with countless technological advantages than in the past. This can also be benefiting to your long distance relationship. Seriously, there are many tips you can adopt in order to spice up your relationship.

The present era increased the level of infidelity among lovers which led to increase in the number of broken relationships and emotional depression among lovers. Long distance relationship is quite common in this era because of the increase in global communication championed by the Internet.

The power of the Internet has made it easy for people to communicate worldwide, turning the world into a smaller village. The question now is how are you utilizing the opportunities of the Internet and technology in your long distance relationship? Don't worry about the question; I'm here to offer you tips that can help spice up your long distance relationship. These tips will contribute to the success of the relationship. It's very possible to experience a successful long distance relationship in this era of globalization. Before I move over to the tips to help spice up your long distance relationship, it's very important you take note of the following:

These tips can only be meaningful and helpful if you and your partner can agree to apply them together. This is because long distance relationship can only work out when you and your partner agree and desire to make it work!

Now, what are these tips?

1: Know the mission and vision of the relationship

The major problem long distance relationship partners encounter is lack of vision and mission. You can't make your relationship work out without vision and mission properly defined from the early stages of the relationship. Some of the questions you both should be asking each other during the early stages of the relationship are: What are we going to expect from this relationship? When should we be looking at calling it a quit? What rules should apply for us in this relationship? What should be the margin of our physical contacts? These questions if properly answered will help shape the vision and mission of the relationship. If I should really talk about mission and vision in every relationship then, I will end up talking till the end of time! Just bear in mind that vision and mission are very important for your long distance relationship.

2: Communicate crazily

Well, I'm yet to see anything that can compete with the place of communication in every relationship. For your long distance relationship, you and your partner must invest in communication gadgets. What do I call crazy communication? As for me, crazy communication in relationship perspective means communication that involves almost if not all the communication means such as social media chatting, voice calling, text messages, video calling, photo sharing, instant messaging etc. Don't ever make the mistake of investing on just one or two means of communication in your long distance relationship. It will surely have negative effects on the relationship!

3: Watch movies, sport and television programmes together

Well, you and your partner over there in another country can decide to always watch programmes on television together and also watch movies together! How possible can this be? Well, very possible! All you have to do is decide on the movie to watch together with your partner. When you have decided this with your partner, ensure the both of you watch the movie at the most appropriate time suitable for the both of you. After each movie, ensure you both discuss the movie and ensure you both constantly discuss the movie while watching it. This is very interesting and engaging and I know you will like it. Remember, movies can be watched online too. Just ensure you both have the address of the website where to watch movies online, you both can log in and watch movies online together. As you the watching goes on, the text chatting can follow up. This can be very lively and can help build up intimacy between the both of you.

: Constantly exchange images on the go

This idea can really add fun and build up intimacy and togetherness for the both you. What you have to do here is always share the photos you have on the go. For instance, after dressing up for work in the morning, you may upload your outfit for that day to your partner through private message chat such as WhatsApp, BBM or any other similar chat application. Ensure that your partner is the first to see what is happening with you and around you when captured. Sharing photos on the go can be very engaging too. You both can share photos that are very personal when you're having your bath, when you're dressed in your night wear, when you're naked etc. Anything personal can really be shared instantly with your partner. But before you share personal photos with your partner in a long distance relationship, kindly ensure that the both of you already establish serious trust in the relationship.

Furthermore, the essence of sharing photos on the go is to establish fun. I sometimes share pictures of me laughing, walking, eating, ugly, handsome etc with my friends via instant messengers! Share any picture that can create fun between the both of you.

5: Record videos and share them with each other
The both of you can often record videos and share them via chat applications such as WhatsApp. If the video is not that long, you both can share it using application such as WhatsApp but if the video is quite long and canEUR(TM)t be uploaded using WhatsApp, use online storage accounts such as Google drive to upload it online. After uploading it online with Google drive, make the link accessible just to your partner and he/she can watch it online. It is quite fun. Videos such as your exercise routine can be recorded, videos of your apartment can also be recorded etc. Once again, the power of the internet in making your long distance relationship a fun should be appreciated.

6: Recommend movies, videos, games etc
You can also recommend movies, games, videos etc to your partner. For instance, you watched a movie and you want your partner to watch it also, just recommend the movie for him/her. You can also help your partner make things easier by uploading the recommendation online and give him/her access to get them online by sharing the link(s) with your partner.

Finally, Internet has broken the distance between lovers far away from each other. Things can be done together by lovers who are physically far from each other with the help of the Internet. Ensure you positively use the Internet for the benefit of your long distance relationship.


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