The Magic of Making Up - Can it Get Your Ex Back?
Are you looking to get your ex back? The best way to get through a time like this is to have a guide book - one to show you what to do and say (and what to avoid doing as well).
I'm about to reveal that one of the most important modern day books written on how to get your ex back is 'The Magic of Making Up', by T.
W.
Jackson.
I'm going to touch mainly on one subject area from the 'Magic of Making Up': "What to do immediately following a break up" If you want to get your ex back, you can not afford to appear needy or clingy.
Imagine if you were unhappy with your partner and you instigated a break up: how would you feel if they started calling you over and over, telling you that they can't live without you? Though some may be flattered, most would see the weakness in their partner.
This kind of behaviour smacks of a lack of independence and mental strength.
Would you want to be with someone like that? And yet we find that this kind of behaviour is typical from people who have recently been dumped.
Now imagine this: Instead of being an emotional wreck, the partner you have just dumped is cool as a cucumber.
They say 'Ok, I agree, in fact I was thinking of breaking up as well.
Let's be without each other for a while and see how things go'.
You're shocked.
You were not expecting this, and you're not quite sure what to think.
It took a great effort on your part to break up in the first place, and he/she doesn't seem upset.
Why? Can you see how your curiosity has been piqued? You will want to find out what's going on, for sure.
Now this is exactly what T.
W.
Jackson details in the first part of his book, the Magic of Making Up.
If you stay strong at the start of a break up, you are projecting a powerful image to your ex - one that says "I'm going to live my life how I want to, and I won't let this bring me down".
The Magic of Making up is full of techniques like this to help you get your ex back, and keep your relationship on track once you are together again.
Another example is the "Clean Slate Method", an incredibly simple yet effective way to apologize to your ex that, in essence, will bring your relationship back to 'square one'.
I'm about to reveal that one of the most important modern day books written on how to get your ex back is 'The Magic of Making Up', by T.
W.
Jackson.
I'm going to touch mainly on one subject area from the 'Magic of Making Up': "What to do immediately following a break up" If you want to get your ex back, you can not afford to appear needy or clingy.
Imagine if you were unhappy with your partner and you instigated a break up: how would you feel if they started calling you over and over, telling you that they can't live without you? Though some may be flattered, most would see the weakness in their partner.
This kind of behaviour smacks of a lack of independence and mental strength.
Would you want to be with someone like that? And yet we find that this kind of behaviour is typical from people who have recently been dumped.
Now imagine this: Instead of being an emotional wreck, the partner you have just dumped is cool as a cucumber.
They say 'Ok, I agree, in fact I was thinking of breaking up as well.
Let's be without each other for a while and see how things go'.
You're shocked.
You were not expecting this, and you're not quite sure what to think.
It took a great effort on your part to break up in the first place, and he/she doesn't seem upset.
Why? Can you see how your curiosity has been piqued? You will want to find out what's going on, for sure.
Now this is exactly what T.
W.
Jackson details in the first part of his book, the Magic of Making Up.
If you stay strong at the start of a break up, you are projecting a powerful image to your ex - one that says "I'm going to live my life how I want to, and I won't let this bring me down".
The Magic of Making up is full of techniques like this to help you get your ex back, and keep your relationship on track once you are together again.
Another example is the "Clean Slate Method", an incredibly simple yet effective way to apologize to your ex that, in essence, will bring your relationship back to 'square one'.
