Attraction
Attraction
The things that attract men range from the wide and small.
Something as simple as a pair of dangly ear rings can attract a man just like an expensive lure can attract a fish. There's something in the movement of ear rings and a ponytail that dangles and jiggles that just shouts out look at me.
A pony tail that swings and sways can have the same effect on a man as a worm on a hook to a fish in pond. The movement creates attraction and at the least it does draw attention. Why is this? It's because it's feminine. And feminine attracts.
There are things that are made to attract and once they've caught a man's eye they will automatically check out the rest of the package. While it's true that different things attract different people. The law of attraction is a powerful thing.
Men are attracted to a feminine woman and each man may have a different definition of what is feminine to him. Just as each woman has a definition of what she finds attractive and masculine in a man. The secret to attraction is important to finding the right person for us. Attraction and love spells excitement for us.
Now there are some people that will call you superficial if you look for someone that you find nice looking. They will tell you that you should be looking at the personality and not what's on the out side.
But that's not the way it works for us or them. These same people do the same things they are condemning you for, except they hide behind the word chemistry.
You see when you look for a woman that's pretty to you; they say you are being superficial.
But when they are looking for a woman that's pretty to them that say the chemistry has to be right.
Chemistry is attraction. And the first step in attraction is physical attraction and if you are both attracted to each other, then the next step is personality attraction.
Personality attraction will decide if the two of you are compatible. If you enjoy each others company no matter what you are doing and you like to do many of the same things or enjoy trying new things that interest the other person, then this is a good sign that you are physically and mentally compatible.
This is something you will have to decide for yourself. What someone else thinks has nothing to do with it. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, which is the one doing the looking. What may look absolutely gorgeous and sexy to one man may not be attractive at all to another.
Online Dating
Dating sites are another way that we use attraction to pick a mate. First we are attracted to their pictures. Then we read their personality profile. Here we can make the final decision of whether this person sounds like someone that we would be interested in.
But with out the attraction to the photo first we would never move on to read about the personality.
Whether dating online is for you or not its definitely growing in popularity and it is a way to meet people. But you still have to be careful of who you meet as with any dating.
A Prissy Woman
Being feminine and even prissy is a trait that will attract.
No matter what a man may say, a prissy woman is attractive, and it amplifies her feminine qualities.
It makes her much more attractive than some of the butch type women.
A prissy woman is hard to keep your eyes off of. But there are so few of them left, making it hard to find one to compare to.
Another big thing that attracts us men is the sense of smell. The sent of a woman will open a man's eyes and he will look around to find out where it's coming from and who's wearing it.
A nice smelling perfume can draw a man to a woman like a moth to a flame. It will hold him there if she has a personality that's as sweet as she smells.
Yes us men we like the sight of movement and love sweet feminine smells. The woman that has this quality is a pleasure to smell and a desire to be around.
11-24- 2010 5:20 am Thursday Timothy Edward Wilhelm
Copyright 2010 All Rights Reserved
http://www.timothywilhelm.com
The things that attract men range from the wide and small.
Something as simple as a pair of dangly ear rings can attract a man just like an expensive lure can attract a fish. There's something in the movement of ear rings and a ponytail that dangles and jiggles that just shouts out look at me.
A pony tail that swings and sways can have the same effect on a man as a worm on a hook to a fish in pond. The movement creates attraction and at the least it does draw attention. Why is this? It's because it's feminine. And feminine attracts.
There are things that are made to attract and once they've caught a man's eye they will automatically check out the rest of the package. While it's true that different things attract different people. The law of attraction is a powerful thing.
Men are attracted to a feminine woman and each man may have a different definition of what is feminine to him. Just as each woman has a definition of what she finds attractive and masculine in a man. The secret to attraction is important to finding the right person for us. Attraction and love spells excitement for us.
Now there are some people that will call you superficial if you look for someone that you find nice looking. They will tell you that you should be looking at the personality and not what's on the out side.
But that's not the way it works for us or them. These same people do the same things they are condemning you for, except they hide behind the word chemistry.
You see when you look for a woman that's pretty to you; they say you are being superficial.
But when they are looking for a woman that's pretty to them that say the chemistry has to be right.
Chemistry is attraction. And the first step in attraction is physical attraction and if you are both attracted to each other, then the next step is personality attraction.
Personality attraction will decide if the two of you are compatible. If you enjoy each others company no matter what you are doing and you like to do many of the same things or enjoy trying new things that interest the other person, then this is a good sign that you are physically and mentally compatible.
This is something you will have to decide for yourself. What someone else thinks has nothing to do with it. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, which is the one doing the looking. What may look absolutely gorgeous and sexy to one man may not be attractive at all to another.
Online Dating
Dating sites are another way that we use attraction to pick a mate. First we are attracted to their pictures. Then we read their personality profile. Here we can make the final decision of whether this person sounds like someone that we would be interested in.
But with out the attraction to the photo first we would never move on to read about the personality.
Whether dating online is for you or not its definitely growing in popularity and it is a way to meet people. But you still have to be careful of who you meet as with any dating.
A Prissy Woman
Being feminine and even prissy is a trait that will attract.
No matter what a man may say, a prissy woman is attractive, and it amplifies her feminine qualities.
It makes her much more attractive than some of the butch type women.
A prissy woman is hard to keep your eyes off of. But there are so few of them left, making it hard to find one to compare to.
Another big thing that attracts us men is the sense of smell. The sent of a woman will open a man's eyes and he will look around to find out where it's coming from and who's wearing it.
A nice smelling perfume can draw a man to a woman like a moth to a flame. It will hold him there if she has a personality that's as sweet as she smells.
Yes us men we like the sight of movement and love sweet feminine smells. The woman that has this quality is a pleasure to smell and a desire to be around.
11-24- 2010 5:20 am Thursday Timothy Edward Wilhelm
Copyright 2010 All Rights Reserved
http://www.timothywilhelm.com
