How to Find a Man in 10 Days
- 1). Singles should focus inward. Not only is it imperative to develop a sense of individuality when single, developing outside interests is a good way to find a man. For example, volunteer at a local animal shelter, sign up for a marathon training team or volunteer for a company sports team. One caveat, however: Do not feign interest in an activity just to attract love. Dating should be about what interests both people.
- 2). Boost appearance and self-esteem while dating and looking for love. While it is not recommended to completely transform into another person, or attack a new and dangerous exercise and diet routine to find a man, there’s something to be said for small changes. By simply wearing an interesting accessory, or paying those extra five minutes to a wash-and-wear hairdo, singles will feel better about themselves, and a sense of attractiveness will be given off in unconscious ways.
- 3). Be social. Go to that party your co-worker’s been talking about. Try out a new bar. By going outside of the routine, women will find new men to meet. Appear approachable by smiling and introducing yourself to men of interest. These days, it’s acceptable for women to give men their phone numbers instead of waiting to be asked. Take care not to drink too much when trying to find a man. The normal temptation is to alleviate nervousness and appear more social when dating, but overdrinking can have unintended and negative consequence that can undermine new love before it begins.
- 4). Look online. Online dating is now a socially acceptable way to find a man. Singles should take care to be honest in online correspondence ahead of meeting, and make sure that the first date is scheduled in a public place. Do not reveal any personal details, such as address, place of employment, or even a last name, until there is a complete comfort level with the person. Also pay attention to the small details. Just as in non-cyberspace interactions, there are people out there who will be untruthful in the game of love.
- 5). Take it easy. Women shouldn't be too disappointed if the men they find aren't a lasting solution. In fact, they shouldn't feel bad if 10 days go by and they don't find a man. Dating is difficult and complicated, and it’s often a matter of being at the right place at the right time, especially when it comes to lasting love.
