Marriage Problems: 3 Marriage Problems That Can Be Caused By Telling Your Husband, "I Love You&
The marriage problems that I'm about to talk about can be caused by telling your man, "I love you".
A lot of women aren't going to like this article, but I feel that it is my duty to let as many women know as possible.
A lot of men out there are backing away and leaving their wives feeling lost, confused and alone when they profess their love to them.
I'm going to explain why this happens and what you should be doing instead to let your man know that you love him.
Some guys simply don't know how to react and they stonewall, since this is what we do when we aren't sure how to react emotionally.
1.
Detachment This is one of the big problems that occur when women tell us guys that they love us.
Don't get us wrong ladies, we appreciate the sentiment but we just don't want to hurt you, which is why we detach ourselves.
However in the context of a marriage, this can be very detrimental in the long run.
The woman is simply going to interpret it as the man not loving her back when really, he doesn't want to appear weak for saying it.
2.
Confusion When you tell your man, "I love you" there's not really one good way to respond back.
You can't say, "thanks", you can smile, nod and kiss them, but that's as good as saying, "I love you" back.
We guys tend to confuse women when we don't respond.
That's because a lot of us are really readable and we know that if we say, "I love you" back, you'll be able to tell if we mean it or not.
3.
Loving You Less This is one of the funny things about telling someone that you love them.
The more you say it, the less affect it has.
If you think about how often teenagers say it, you'll know what I mean.
They simply don't have their heads screwed on.
This is one of those things that you've got to understand.
We don't want you to say it all the time.
You can prove your love by your actions, your dedication to us and your body language, all the little things.
Say it if it's necessary.
To prove a point, your actions will speak louder than your words.
These marriage problems can be avoided if you know how and when to say, "I love you".
For every other time, it's simply a lot more effective to tell your man that you love him through all the little things.
A lot of women aren't going to like this article, but I feel that it is my duty to let as many women know as possible.
A lot of men out there are backing away and leaving their wives feeling lost, confused and alone when they profess their love to them.
I'm going to explain why this happens and what you should be doing instead to let your man know that you love him.
Some guys simply don't know how to react and they stonewall, since this is what we do when we aren't sure how to react emotionally.
1.
Detachment This is one of the big problems that occur when women tell us guys that they love us.
Don't get us wrong ladies, we appreciate the sentiment but we just don't want to hurt you, which is why we detach ourselves.
However in the context of a marriage, this can be very detrimental in the long run.
The woman is simply going to interpret it as the man not loving her back when really, he doesn't want to appear weak for saying it.
2.
Confusion When you tell your man, "I love you" there's not really one good way to respond back.
You can't say, "thanks", you can smile, nod and kiss them, but that's as good as saying, "I love you" back.
We guys tend to confuse women when we don't respond.
That's because a lot of us are really readable and we know that if we say, "I love you" back, you'll be able to tell if we mean it or not.
3.
Loving You Less This is one of the funny things about telling someone that you love them.
The more you say it, the less affect it has.
If you think about how often teenagers say it, you'll know what I mean.
They simply don't have their heads screwed on.
This is one of those things that you've got to understand.
We don't want you to say it all the time.
You can prove your love by your actions, your dedication to us and your body language, all the little things.
Say it if it's necessary.
To prove a point, your actions will speak louder than your words.
These marriage problems can be avoided if you know how and when to say, "I love you".
For every other time, it's simply a lot more effective to tell your man that you love him through all the little things.
