Getting Your Ex Back - Why Did My Ex Hurt Me
Sometimes we find ourselves in situations, which we cannot explain.
You thought everything was fine within your relationship yet now you are sitting alone pondering why your ex dumped you.
The situation was not even a nice one, your ex ended the relationship abruptly therefore leaving you wondering what went wrong? You want your ex back but you do not even know why your ex is now your ex.
Why did they not tell me why the relationship is over? If your ex did not afford you the answer to why the relationship was ended, you will more than likely not receive the reason why voluntarily from your ex.
Now you are left with trying to figure this one out on your own.
Getting your ex back will entail some steep evaluations of yourself in determining why your ex not only hurt you but also dumped you.
What did you do wrong? You can start by asking yourself what you feel you did wrong.
Were you attentive enough to your ex? Did you listen to your ex when he or she spoke to you? Sometimes people do take their significant others for granted.
Sometimes people dismiss things their significant other states because they feel it is not important.
Getting your ex back will entail you showing them you are ready to take them seriously in their opinions as well as desires and wants.
Did you appreciate your significant others opinions? What people fail to understand during these selfish moments is that if it is not important to you, this does not mean that it is not important to your significant other.
People do not entwine as one individual within a relationship.
People within relationships are still individuals and each opinion as well as view must be accepted.
Did you pay attention to your significant other? Were you inattentive to your significant other? Did you go and hang out at the bar when he or she wanted you to spend time with them? Did you prioritize the bar over them as a whole? It truly get's old within a relationship when your significant other always has to stop by a bar before they come home or their significant other has some strange emotional attachment to a bar.
This is tolerated in the beginning however, this behavior by either one within a relationship will find one or the other single and suffering a failed relationship.
If you want your ex back, you have to spend quality time with them outside of a bar.
Did your behavior change? Did you in the beginning of your relationship shower your significant other with cute text messages or sweet compliments? If so, did this stop occurring? Significant others do begin to feel insecure when they notice a change in behavior.
If you use to text message during the day and you no longer do this, they question why? If your significant other took the time out of their busy day to send you a sweet endearing email and you didn't even bother to reply back, this was more than likely hurtful.
If you are guilty of everything stated within this article as possible bad behavior or even just some of it, is it any wonder why your significant other dumped you? They were obviously dealing with many hurtful, selfish things you performed and their way of striking out at you was determining they have had enough and they ended the relationship.
If you ever want your ex back, you must remedy these behaviors because if your ex ended the relationship due to bad behavior as in the examples within this article, you can rest assured no matter how badly you want your ex back, they will not come back.
You thought everything was fine within your relationship yet now you are sitting alone pondering why your ex dumped you.
The situation was not even a nice one, your ex ended the relationship abruptly therefore leaving you wondering what went wrong? You want your ex back but you do not even know why your ex is now your ex.
Why did they not tell me why the relationship is over? If your ex did not afford you the answer to why the relationship was ended, you will more than likely not receive the reason why voluntarily from your ex.
Now you are left with trying to figure this one out on your own.
Getting your ex back will entail some steep evaluations of yourself in determining why your ex not only hurt you but also dumped you.
What did you do wrong? You can start by asking yourself what you feel you did wrong.
Were you attentive enough to your ex? Did you listen to your ex when he or she spoke to you? Sometimes people do take their significant others for granted.
Sometimes people dismiss things their significant other states because they feel it is not important.
Getting your ex back will entail you showing them you are ready to take them seriously in their opinions as well as desires and wants.
Did you appreciate your significant others opinions? What people fail to understand during these selfish moments is that if it is not important to you, this does not mean that it is not important to your significant other.
People do not entwine as one individual within a relationship.
People within relationships are still individuals and each opinion as well as view must be accepted.
Did you pay attention to your significant other? Were you inattentive to your significant other? Did you go and hang out at the bar when he or she wanted you to spend time with them? Did you prioritize the bar over them as a whole? It truly get's old within a relationship when your significant other always has to stop by a bar before they come home or their significant other has some strange emotional attachment to a bar.
This is tolerated in the beginning however, this behavior by either one within a relationship will find one or the other single and suffering a failed relationship.
If you want your ex back, you have to spend quality time with them outside of a bar.
Did your behavior change? Did you in the beginning of your relationship shower your significant other with cute text messages or sweet compliments? If so, did this stop occurring? Significant others do begin to feel insecure when they notice a change in behavior.
If you use to text message during the day and you no longer do this, they question why? If your significant other took the time out of their busy day to send you a sweet endearing email and you didn't even bother to reply back, this was more than likely hurtful.
If you are guilty of everything stated within this article as possible bad behavior or even just some of it, is it any wonder why your significant other dumped you? They were obviously dealing with many hurtful, selfish things you performed and their way of striking out at you was determining they have had enough and they ended the relationship.
If you ever want your ex back, you must remedy these behaviors because if your ex ended the relationship due to bad behavior as in the examples within this article, you can rest assured no matter how badly you want your ex back, they will not come back.
