I Feel Like My Marriage is Going Downhill - What Never to Do When You"re Feeling This Way!
Are you in a time in where it feels like your marriage is going downhill? Sometimes it feels like things are going downhill fast, and other times it feels like things are gently rolling downhill, nonetheless still on it's way down and perhaps ending.
If you feel this way there are certain things that you should never do, here's some of the most important.
Marriage Advice for Those Who Feel Their Marriage is Going Down Hill...
I know that when you put everything you've got into something that doesn't seem to be working it can be heartbreaking.
It can be discouraging and some people give up on saving a marriage because of this discouragement.
Others will simply not doing anything and hope that things end up working out in the end.
Usually when that approach is taken things don't work out.
But more importantly a lot of people do things that just break their marriage down more, and a marriage that's going down hill turns into a marriage snowballing very fast downhill and that's never good.
What Not to Do to Make Your Marriage Worse When It's Already In Trouble...
One of the things that people will do is to get mad and go out and talk to a lawyer.
Most often this takes the marriage to places that the person never actually intended it to go.
Basically what can happen is that a marriage lawyer can push to get the client and have a person filing for divorce when all that they really wanted to do was express some anger.
Others will go around bad mouthing their spouse basically turning everyone against them, while at the same time seeking advice.
The thing wrong with this approach is a) you'll never get good and unbiased marriage advice from all of your friends and family...
whose side do you think they'll be on...
and b) If and when you do get your marriage back on track you're actually going to be upset yourself when your friends and family don't want to be around your spouse that you bad mouthed all over town.
What to Do Instead if Your Marriage is In a Downswing...
First of all stop panicking and thinking that just because things aren't going perfect that it means that your marriage is over.
This may sting a bit, but somebody has to tell you.
It's time to grow up and take some responsibility...
You see marriage is not a fickle thing and it actually takes work.
Lots of it! If you thought this thing was going to be all peaches and roses then it's good that you're learning your lesson now rather than later.
So get divorce out of your mind, don't even consider it an option, and start taking action that will get your marriage back on track.
It'll probably surprise you exactly how little action it will take.
Lots of time the smallest fixes will have the most effect.
If you feel this way there are certain things that you should never do, here's some of the most important.
Marriage Advice for Those Who Feel Their Marriage is Going Down Hill...
I know that when you put everything you've got into something that doesn't seem to be working it can be heartbreaking.
It can be discouraging and some people give up on saving a marriage because of this discouragement.
Others will simply not doing anything and hope that things end up working out in the end.
Usually when that approach is taken things don't work out.
But more importantly a lot of people do things that just break their marriage down more, and a marriage that's going down hill turns into a marriage snowballing very fast downhill and that's never good.
What Not to Do to Make Your Marriage Worse When It's Already In Trouble...
One of the things that people will do is to get mad and go out and talk to a lawyer.
Most often this takes the marriage to places that the person never actually intended it to go.
Basically what can happen is that a marriage lawyer can push to get the client and have a person filing for divorce when all that they really wanted to do was express some anger.
Others will go around bad mouthing their spouse basically turning everyone against them, while at the same time seeking advice.
The thing wrong with this approach is a) you'll never get good and unbiased marriage advice from all of your friends and family...
whose side do you think they'll be on...
and b) If and when you do get your marriage back on track you're actually going to be upset yourself when your friends and family don't want to be around your spouse that you bad mouthed all over town.
What to Do Instead if Your Marriage is In a Downswing...
First of all stop panicking and thinking that just because things aren't going perfect that it means that your marriage is over.
This may sting a bit, but somebody has to tell you.
It's time to grow up and take some responsibility...
You see marriage is not a fickle thing and it actually takes work.
Lots of it! If you thought this thing was going to be all peaches and roses then it's good that you're learning your lesson now rather than later.
So get divorce out of your mind, don't even consider it an option, and start taking action that will get your marriage back on track.
It'll probably surprise you exactly how little action it will take.
Lots of time the smallest fixes will have the most effect.
