In most cases it is really hard to cope with the break up: it is a very exhausting psychological experience.
After the break up most people want to get their ex girlfriend.
It is a normal reaction to the situation and it is completely achievable! But before we start it is important to be optimistic: "Winning my girlfriend back will be an easy task for me" Firstly, you should get yourself into a clear state of mind.
After calming yourself down it is time to survey your current situation.
You must determine the causes of the break up.
You must find an answer to these questions: Why has the break up happened? Was it preventable? If yes, then how? When you find the reasons you should start thinking about a solution.
It is very important to come up with a solution, since it will play a crucial role in your strategy (especially in the last step: "Winning my girlfriend back mainly depends on whether I learned from my previous mistakes or not!").
The second step is to minimize contact with your girlfriend.
You should stop hanging around her all the time since it will only push her further away.
Besides, this is a very effective method: it will make your girlfriend to miss you.
In order to make her to miss you, you must show her that you can be happy and strong on your own.
So the best advice I can give is to start socialize: go out with your friends and enjoy life.
After a while your ex will start missing you and she will contact with you.
You may think now: "finally I'm winning my girlfriend back".
It is true but there is one more step left.
Read on.
In the last step you will use the so called "reconnect technique".
It should be used immediately after your girlfriend contacted you.
In this step you will rebuild your relationship with her but remember this step must be done carefully and properly.
If you are interested about the last step and you want to win your girlfriend back.
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