4 Critical Elements In Manifesting With The Law Of Attraction - Element Three
The following excerpt in italic is a standard copy-paste from my previous article, regarding context.
Let me begin by stating two things, one of them is quoting T Harv Eker of course.
1.) Don't believe a word I say. Because I am only coming from my own experience, and what I'm writing to share my experience with the Law of Attraction. I'd reckon that you would relate to a certain extent what I'm talking about, and hopefully that will be enough to set you on your way to attract and manifest any result you want into your life.
2.) The series of articles is about what I believe to be the critical elements, NOT steps. Elements in short, are what must exist in the process, steps is more on a sequential thing. Step 1 followed by Step 2 etc.
The third critical element for manifesting with the Law of Attraction is... DETACHMENT!
I know, this element might seem anti-climatic, but I'd like you to read this through over and over and over (yes, minimum three times) again.
The third critical element to manifest is to let go the attachment of 'must having it'.
You've gone through elements one and two which are DEFINITENESS and the VIVIDNESS of Visualization, and right now you ought to feel good after you visualized having already been in that relationship you'd like to have. The trick is to detach
yourself from the final outcome, and be in the place of gratitude.
Being grateful is one of the biggest challenges in our lives. It's much easier to complain about what's wrong and what's bad, and completely lose sight of tonnes of things that are actually going well and fine.
The key is to be grateful in the present. Be grateful and thankful to the Higher Power/The Universe, or whatever name you choose to call it, for blessing you with all the blessings you have received, and this ideal relationship you're having with that wonderful life partner, even if you haven't had it yet! Be in the place that you are thankful for the relationship when it comes and believe that it is on its way.
The opposite of detachment is attachment to the outcome, which is something you'd like to avoid. Once you are coming from the position that "I must have this life partner/relationship", then you are coming from a place of neediness.
It means you're communicating to The Universe/Higher Power that you are too attached to it, and without it, you are not complete.
A simple tip for this step is simply get on with life. Take a moment every day to do another visualization exercise, soak yourself in the feel-good-nectar of already having that relationship you desire and be grateful for that imaginary experience.
And let it go at that, and continue on with your job/business, chores and other daily activities.
2-Minutes Summary
5-10 minutes quiet time visualizing and emotionalizing what your desired relationship/life partner would look and FEEL like is a YES.
Constantly focusing on that vision 24/7, and completely forgoing other activities, feeling that "I MUST HAVE....." is a NO NO.
Know what you want to have, but don't be attached to having it your way.
Let me begin by stating two things, one of them is quoting T Harv Eker of course.
1.) Don't believe a word I say. Because I am only coming from my own experience, and what I'm writing to share my experience with the Law of Attraction. I'd reckon that you would relate to a certain extent what I'm talking about, and hopefully that will be enough to set you on your way to attract and manifest any result you want into your life.
2.) The series of articles is about what I believe to be the critical elements, NOT steps. Elements in short, are what must exist in the process, steps is more on a sequential thing. Step 1 followed by Step 2 etc.
The third critical element for manifesting with the Law of Attraction is... DETACHMENT!
I know, this element might seem anti-climatic, but I'd like you to read this through over and over and over (yes, minimum three times) again.
The third critical element to manifest is to let go the attachment of 'must having it'.
You've gone through elements one and two which are DEFINITENESS and the VIVIDNESS of Visualization, and right now you ought to feel good after you visualized having already been in that relationship you'd like to have. The trick is to detach
yourself from the final outcome, and be in the place of gratitude.
Being grateful is one of the biggest challenges in our lives. It's much easier to complain about what's wrong and what's bad, and completely lose sight of tonnes of things that are actually going well and fine.
The key is to be grateful in the present. Be grateful and thankful to the Higher Power/The Universe, or whatever name you choose to call it, for blessing you with all the blessings you have received, and this ideal relationship you're having with that wonderful life partner, even if you haven't had it yet! Be in the place that you are thankful for the relationship when it comes and believe that it is on its way.
The opposite of detachment is attachment to the outcome, which is something you'd like to avoid. Once you are coming from the position that "I must have this life partner/relationship", then you are coming from a place of neediness.
It means you're communicating to The Universe/Higher Power that you are too attached to it, and without it, you are not complete.
A simple tip for this step is simply get on with life. Take a moment every day to do another visualization exercise, soak yourself in the feel-good-nectar of already having that relationship you desire and be grateful for that imaginary experience.
And let it go at that, and continue on with your job/business, chores and other daily activities.
2-Minutes Summary
5-10 minutes quiet time visualizing and emotionalizing what your desired relationship/life partner would look and FEEL like is a YES.
Constantly focusing on that vision 24/7, and completely forgoing other activities, feeling that "I MUST HAVE....." is a NO NO.
Know what you want to have, but don't be attached to having it your way.
