The Does He Love Me Test - To Find Out If He Is For Real
Met a new guy? Cute? Funny? Says all the right things? Well, if your like most women, you haven't had a great past with guys - maybe you haven't figured out your way around it fully, and that's where "The Does he Love Me Test: To Find Out If He Is For Real" was born from.
Does he love me? Does he love me not?...
Think of those words for a minute.
Now think of...
When you first met this guy, what was your initial vibe? Was it a little weird; or was it a secure feeling? It's a proven fact, that we attract the vibe we constantly give off.
If you had a bad vibe from him, it may not always be because he's a bad guy.
This may be because of the bad past experiences you had with men and those experiences are now keeping your personal defenses much higher, while mentally reflecting trust issues, as you try to get a clear understanding of what is it you both want from this relationship.
Time to investigate; Investigate what, you may ask? Let's see, how many ex-girlfriends has he had within the last 1-2 years? and what words are used to describe his past acquaintances? How do you find this out? Simple: ask the question in a NON-NOSEY way! Say "I was reading a Book, Magazine, etc...
and they was doing a survey with couples, and they asked the guy's of the relationships to complete this sentence only using one word phases..
The fastest car in the world is a...
? Who has the best NFL football team today? I had how many ex-girls friends last year? BINGO! Here is the logic behind the questions...
"There is no logic"! The first two questions, are nothing more then a mere smoke screen opinion at it's best.
However, the third question, will always be a true fact question.
This questioning format relaxes a person, while believing this is a fun mental exercise, instead it's really a fact finding information exercise.
The Lesson, If he hates his ex today, maybe he'll be saying the same bad things about you tomorrow.
This may tell you how long the relationship may last which, in turn, will tell you if he's serious about a commitment to you.
I think I heard the bell..
..
..
class is over.
But what did we learn here today.
Observation is the key.
Believe in that inner vibe which is constantly speaking to you.
Remember there can never be no future growth, if his negative communication describes his past.
Does he love me? Does he love me not?...
Think of those words for a minute.
Now think of...
When you first met this guy, what was your initial vibe? Was it a little weird; or was it a secure feeling? It's a proven fact, that we attract the vibe we constantly give off.
If you had a bad vibe from him, it may not always be because he's a bad guy.
This may be because of the bad past experiences you had with men and those experiences are now keeping your personal defenses much higher, while mentally reflecting trust issues, as you try to get a clear understanding of what is it you both want from this relationship.
Time to investigate; Investigate what, you may ask? Let's see, how many ex-girlfriends has he had within the last 1-2 years? and what words are used to describe his past acquaintances? How do you find this out? Simple: ask the question in a NON-NOSEY way! Say "I was reading a Book, Magazine, etc...
and they was doing a survey with couples, and they asked the guy's of the relationships to complete this sentence only using one word phases..
The fastest car in the world is a...
? Who has the best NFL football team today? I had how many ex-girls friends last year? BINGO! Here is the logic behind the questions...
"There is no logic"! The first two questions, are nothing more then a mere smoke screen opinion at it's best.
However, the third question, will always be a true fact question.
This questioning format relaxes a person, while believing this is a fun mental exercise, instead it's really a fact finding information exercise.
The Lesson, If he hates his ex today, maybe he'll be saying the same bad things about you tomorrow.
This may tell you how long the relationship may last which, in turn, will tell you if he's serious about a commitment to you.
I think I heard the bell..
..
..
class is over.
But what did we learn here today.
Observation is the key.
Believe in that inner vibe which is constantly speaking to you.
Remember there can never be no future growth, if his negative communication describes his past.
