You've broken things off, gone your separate ways, but you can't help thinking he/she's still into you, right? This happens a lot, so you're not alone.
You may be thinking it's wishful thinking, or maybe you're simply paranoid that he or she still wants you back, but either way you're confused.
Does this sound kind of like what's going on in your head right now? If so, read on for some tips on being sure he or she wants you.
They find excuses to talk to you: Unless you were very close before the relationship and agreed when it ended to stay in touch on a daily basis, chances are his or her attentions to your communications are now just a ploy to somehow keep you in their life.
This is especially true if they seem more than usually interested in your love or private life.
They show up in your very different social circles: Sometimes an ex will desperately try to be friends with someone in your circle in order to end up at the same parties or events that you do, in order to see you more often.
These appearances are especially suggestive if he/she usually wouldn't be at those types of gatherings.
Bonus Tip - Try just asking: If he or she avoids that topic and answering that question at all costs, chances are it's true.
This is often the last thing your ex would admit to, especially if they were more hurt by the breakup than you were.