If you have experienced a break up recently then you understand how tough it can be.
Not only are your emotions all messed up, but deep down you want to get your ex back.
While you want to get back together, you are a bit nervous about coming across as too pushy.
With that in mind, here some tips to help you patch things up without overdoing it.
Before you do anything else, it's a good idea to have a plan in place.
This will keep you from getting too nervous, and it will also help you to stay on track.
There are plenty of good guides to help you get your former partner back, so go ahead and grab one and follow along.
You will need some time to get your emotions back in check prior to contacting them.
At the same time, they need some time and space of their own so they can sort through their emotions.
The best way to handle this is cut off all contact for a while.
Once you think you have given them enough time, and you're feeling better, then you can get in touch with them.
The first contact is the most important.
Keep it very low key, but upbeat and positive.
Right now your only goal is to make them want to hear from you again, so don't try to get your ex back during the initial conversation.
Whatever you do, don't argue.
You may have a lot to say, and that's understandable, but you don't want to ruin your chances to get back together before you even start.
Take it one step at a time.
As they say, "good things come to those who wait", so don't be pushy and keep the bigger picture in mind.
Do it right and you will have a much happier future.