Have you been dating this really cool guy for a while now, but you're having a hard time knowing whether he loves you or not? Is he sweet and funny, but there are times when he seems so distant, you wonder what's he's really thinking about? Do you think he might be playing the same game with other girls, but you're afraid to ask him about it? When it comes to love, some men sure know how to play the game to their advantage.
Here's how you can tell whether he's just playing with your heart or is in it for real.
Who is this relationship about? Some guys will use women as an ornament; an accompaniment.
Check out the activities you're doing when you're together.
Is it always what he wants to do? Is he dragging you to parties at his friends' house? Is he bringing you to movies he wants to see? Does he always want you to be there when he goes to an event he likes? And how does he treat you once you're there? If he's not even having fun with you, if he's tending to everyone other than you, it could be that you're just the pretty thing he brings around wherever he goes.
What does he know about you? In many cases, the player doesn't even bother finding out who you really are.
If you've tried on many occasions to talk about yourself, your dreams or even your troubles and he's ignored it all, he's simply not interested in finding out about you.
All he wants are the easy fun time, no hassle; no trouble.
When a man has his heart in it, he wants to be the hero to his girlfriend.
He wants to help her out when she's down.
He wants to know everything about her.
Commitment? Regardless of his justification, if he's seeing other women, you should be out of there.
So now you know if he loves you.