When you got married you vowed to love each other for better or worse. Unfortunately, many marriages have troubles and end in divorce. It is difficult to fix a marriage on the verge of breaking or one that is already broken. The men who have gone through this can tell you how painful and difficult it is facing the possibility that the one they promised to love and cherish may no longer be part of their life. But it's okay, although it may require a lot of effort, getting back your wife is possible.

Here's what you do. The way to win her back is through her heart. Think about when you two just started dating. What made her fall in love with you in the first place? Pinpoint that and be that person once again. Express those qualities you used to woo her back then. Be cautious however when trying to win her back. These things take time and patience is key. Keep focused on your goal and don't become desperate. Stalking her could end up being counter-productive.

It's not all about accentuating the best in yourself, you must also let her know you notice the best in her. Muster up your courage, and tell her how beautiful she looks and that you've always thought this. If you're genuine when you do this she will notice your honesty and sincerity. This is part of rebuilding love and trust and focusing on her.

Learn from your own mistakes and shortcomings. All things change and why not make that change for the better. You can even talk about these things with her and this will make her notice that you're trying to improve yourself. Avoid begging and crying for help because no woman wants to see this behavior from their husband. Just have a serious talk and show her how committed you are to reconciling. Don't be too pushy in making any offers. If she refuses, she obviously needs time to think about it, so don't make a big deal. She will appreciate your patience and persistence.

While talking with your wife, try to get a handle on her motives and perspective on things. Think about what caused problems in the marriage and what things led up to her departure (if it went that far). By learning from these problems you can learn to avoid these issues in the future and in doing so make things better.

This whole process will be a practice in willpower and commitment and it will take both to be successful in getting back your wife. Don't sulk and be bitter; take action and work on improving yourself and your relationship skills. Be the best lover, friend and husband you can be. By doing so you will get her back and once you do, never let her go again.