How to Talk to Women Confidently and Comfortably
It's widely known that women prefer men who are confident.
How to talk to women is therefore a key topic for most men seeking to improve their results.
But when it comes to women and dating, most men are not confident and do poorly when attempting to make a good first impression.
It sounds easy enough in theory: be more confident.
What complicates the matter is that confidence is a "chicken and egg" problem: You need confidence to be successful ...
but confidence results largely from having enjoyed considerable success already.
The usual advice for that is: "Fake it till you make it.
" So here's how to get started: You can project a far more confident image right away simply by eliminating some of the "rookie mistakes" that most guys make around women.
How does she know whether or not you're confident? That's easy ...
you'll tell her.
Not in so many words, of course.
Instead, you'll "inadvertently" let your actions give you away.
When a guy hasn't had a woman for a long time, he gets desperate.
His hormones are raging.
He needs it badly.
And he needs it now.
And that's what he projects: intensity and urgency.
Often to the point of desperation.
Women have evolved to be highly skilled at "reverse engineering.
" So whenever you come on to a new woman with intensity, urgency and desperation, she'll instinctively presume that you haven't had sex in quite a while.
Why is that such a turn-off? Because it tells her that you do very poorly with other women and therefore, you can't be much of a catch.
Otherwise, you'd have been getting it reasonably often and thus you'd have no reason to be so desperate, right? As it turns out, that presumption is often very accurate.
After all, if you've just emerged from a hotel room where you have had sex four times in the last two hours with a swimsuit model, how strongly will you be coming on to the next "merely average" woman who passes you in the street? You'd probably not even notice her.
If another swimsuit model meandered past, you might give her a second look (and make a mental note for later) but for anything less spectacular, you'll be more likely to yawn than to put on a full court press.
So when a new woman sizes you up, that's how she evaluates you: Just how "needy" do you seem? Consider it the dating equivalent to checking your references.
If others before her weren't impressed with you, she won't be either.
That's the way that human perceptions operate.
And that shortcut can be - and sometimes is - gamed by savvy guys.
All that's needed is for you to avoid looking intense, eager, desperate or "too available".
That's a core principle for learning how to talk to women with confidence.
Why not get started on that path to greater confidence now?
How to talk to women is therefore a key topic for most men seeking to improve their results.
But when it comes to women and dating, most men are not confident and do poorly when attempting to make a good first impression.
It sounds easy enough in theory: be more confident.
What complicates the matter is that confidence is a "chicken and egg" problem: You need confidence to be successful ...
but confidence results largely from having enjoyed considerable success already.
The usual advice for that is: "Fake it till you make it.
" So here's how to get started: You can project a far more confident image right away simply by eliminating some of the "rookie mistakes" that most guys make around women.
How does she know whether or not you're confident? That's easy ...
you'll tell her.
Not in so many words, of course.
Instead, you'll "inadvertently" let your actions give you away.
When a guy hasn't had a woman for a long time, he gets desperate.
His hormones are raging.
He needs it badly.
And he needs it now.
And that's what he projects: intensity and urgency.
Often to the point of desperation.
Women have evolved to be highly skilled at "reverse engineering.
" So whenever you come on to a new woman with intensity, urgency and desperation, she'll instinctively presume that you haven't had sex in quite a while.
Why is that such a turn-off? Because it tells her that you do very poorly with other women and therefore, you can't be much of a catch.
Otherwise, you'd have been getting it reasonably often and thus you'd have no reason to be so desperate, right? As it turns out, that presumption is often very accurate.
After all, if you've just emerged from a hotel room where you have had sex four times in the last two hours with a swimsuit model, how strongly will you be coming on to the next "merely average" woman who passes you in the street? You'd probably not even notice her.
If another swimsuit model meandered past, you might give her a second look (and make a mental note for later) but for anything less spectacular, you'll be more likely to yawn than to put on a full court press.
So when a new woman sizes you up, that's how she evaluates you: Just how "needy" do you seem? Consider it the dating equivalent to checking your references.
If others before her weren't impressed with you, she won't be either.
That's the way that human perceptions operate.
And that shortcut can be - and sometimes is - gamed by savvy guys.
All that's needed is for you to avoid looking intense, eager, desperate or "too available".
That's a core principle for learning how to talk to women with confidence.
Why not get started on that path to greater confidence now?
