You probably thought the break up was the worst moment of your life, that is until you learned how much more rejected you feel when you realize they will not even pick up your phone calls.
Getting screened is like adding salt to an open wound, there is no healing effect unless you count the new additional pain effectively hiding the old pain.
However, there are a few ways that you can get your ex to pick up the phone which is the first step in getting them back.
If this sounds like something you could use, then pass the salt and broken heart aside and read the four sure shot tricks to make your ex return your phone calls.
Stop calling for awhile First of all, if they are avoiding your calls there is a good chance you have been calling just a bit too much.
For the moment lay low because continual calling will only damage your chance of ever getting your ex to call back.
Keep voice slow and steady When it is time to call again keep your voice slow because it denotes control and will stop you from saying something in the anxious moment that may be destructive.
Also, make an effort to keep your voice steady because a wavering voice shows instability which is the trait that will turn your ex off the most.
After all, would you want to call someone who sounds like a train wreck? Probably not; so don't make your ex think that you are.
Only call when emotionally controlled Along the same line of thought, you should only call while feeling stable.
Phone calls that are made when you are emotionally unstable or intoxicated are likely to go drastically wrong.
Breaking down on the phone is not a great idea if you want them to call back.
So as tempting as it may be to call, if you feel emotionally off par keep the phone on the hook.
Move on with your life Want your ex to call you back? Then you need to move on with your life.
Flirt a little or get involved because it will make them curious.
If you have things happening in your life your ex will get curious and maybe even jealous enough to ring you for a change!