I have just attended the wedding of a very good friend of mine who had previously broken up twice with his now wife, when she was still his girlfriend.
If youhave just experienced a break up and wondering how to go get an ex back, well the tips in this article may do for you what it did for my just married friend, these tips helped him got his ex back.
Just about every adult has experienced some kind of a break up, and most people just move on rather than looking for a way to get an ex back.
I recall my friend calling me up in tears following his second and last break up convinced that it was all over between him and the only woman, as he put it, he wanted to spend the rest of his life with.
But if you are over feeling sorry for yourself and want to put some work in to get an ex back, then there are steps that you can follow.
Just because you have broken up with your ex does not mean that you cannot get her back.
My friend is living proof of that possibility.
The fact is, In most cases there are no real reasons why you cannot get an ex back following a break up, so long as you know exactly what to do to convince your ex that it worth getting back together again.
The following four tips should help you win your ex back.
1.
As you recall, I told you earlier on how my friend called me up blaming himself for this final break up.
This breakup arose from the fact that he never learned from the mistakes from the first break up and just carried on doing what had wrecked the relationship in the first place.
The first thing therefore is to determine exactly what caused the break up so that you can try to learn and rebuild or modify your character based on these experiences.
2.
In my friend's case, the break up occurred because of certain behaviour that his ex then, now his wife could no longer tolerate.
Your break up may have occurred, like that of my friend because of your behaviour.
Sometimes a break up may be attributed to a single event.
Whatever caused the breakup you need to get to the bottom of the causes and reasons and then, be a man and learn how you can deal with the situation or circumstances should it ever arise in the future.
In a nutshell, you can get an ex back if you are prepared to find out and deal with what went wrong in the first place and determine that it shall never occur again.
That takes commitment.
3.
One of the things that my friend had to do, was not to make it overly obvious that he could not survive without his ex.
He had to change his routine and get involved in a lot of activities so his ex could see that he was doing just fine by himself.
His new sense of self worth and confidence soon got noticed by his ex and she remarked that he had changed and was willing to give their relationship another go despite all her friends telling her to forget him.
This technique has worked not only for my friend but a lot other guys.
4.
Trying to get back at your ex, or trying to make your ex jealous is not a good way to operate.
In fact, these are some of the worst things that you can possibly do, because it will show your ex that he or she should simply move on because you already have.
While you do want your ex to see that you're doing ok, you do not want it to inspire him or her to completely move on if your ideal scenario is to get back together.
Let your ex see how strong and self confident you are, and they will feel inspired to get back together with you.