Why Would You Settle For Loving Your Partner More Than You Are Loved
When you first get involved in a relationship, watch for the warning signs.
Don't fall into the trap of making excuses for your partner about why he or she cant love you the way you want to be loved.
The sooner you are honest with yourself, the less likely you are to get your heart broken.
Here are several reasons why you would attract a relationship in which you are loving more If one or more of your parents don't give you the love and attention you needed as a child, you probably made an unconscious decision that I have to work hard to get people to love me.
By attracting someone whom you love more.
If your self-esteem is low, you will attract a partner who will validate your critical opinion of yourself by not loving you enough.
If you watch your mother always pursuing your partner, or vice versa you may have concluded a s a child that this sis what relationships are like and that it's "normal" for me person to love the other more.
No matter what the reason for being involved with someone you are loving much more than they are loving you the results will be same: You will end up feeling miserable You will end up feeling cheated You will end up feeling angry You will end up feeling hungry for love You will end up feeling controlled by your partner You seem to be fitting yourself into your partner's life, habits and schedule and he doesn't make efforts to fit into your life and schedule.
- You want to make love, to be intimate and loving when you are in bed, but your partner is into just having sex.
- You go out of your way to be with him or do things for him, but your partner rarely goes out of his way for you.
- In the beginning of the relationship you told your family about your partner before he told his family about you.
- When you first get involved with someone, be honest with yourself about whether you are taken more love than you are given.
NOTE:Don't dilute yourself into believing that your partner would rather have a little of your love than none at all, and use this as an excuse to stay in relationship you do not belong to.
Don't fall into the trap of making excuses for your partner about why he or she cant love you the way you want to be loved.
The sooner you are honest with yourself, the less likely you are to get your heart broken.
Here are several reasons why you would attract a relationship in which you are loving more If one or more of your parents don't give you the love and attention you needed as a child, you probably made an unconscious decision that I have to work hard to get people to love me.
By attracting someone whom you love more.
If your self-esteem is low, you will attract a partner who will validate your critical opinion of yourself by not loving you enough.
If you watch your mother always pursuing your partner, or vice versa you may have concluded a s a child that this sis what relationships are like and that it's "normal" for me person to love the other more.
No matter what the reason for being involved with someone you are loving much more than they are loving you the results will be same: You will end up feeling miserable You will end up feeling cheated You will end up feeling angry You will end up feeling hungry for love You will end up feeling controlled by your partner You seem to be fitting yourself into your partner's life, habits and schedule and he doesn't make efforts to fit into your life and schedule.
- You want to make love, to be intimate and loving when you are in bed, but your partner is into just having sex.
- You go out of your way to be with him or do things for him, but your partner rarely goes out of his way for you.
- In the beginning of the relationship you told your family about your partner before he told his family about you.
- When you first get involved with someone, be honest with yourself about whether you are taken more love than you are given.
NOTE:Don't dilute yourself into believing that your partner would rather have a little of your love than none at all, and use this as an excuse to stay in relationship you do not belong to.
