When you broke up with your ex, your heart was and still is ruling you.
Your emotions are out of control bouncing from hate to sorrow to shock.
You just can not even function anymore.
If you want your ex boyfriend back, you need to get back on track! A breakup can be like death.
If you were together a really long time and was extremely close, the pain feels like a knife cutting your heart to pieces.
You need to heal from all this trauma.
You need to pick yourself off the ground, and get it together especially for your sanity.
If let yourself go down this road it will cause depression and a lot of unhealthy everything.
Start with the outside appearance.
Get your hair and nails done again.
Shop for new clothes.
Out with the old in with the new.
Don't forget makeup and perfume.
Try something new you have never tried before.
Give in to impulse.
Create a brand new you! Then, soon, you will start seeing changes within yourself.
If you look great in the mirror and now enjoy doing your hair and dressing up, it builds back up your self esteem.
You will start feeling positive in the inside and feel good about yourself.
You will start loving yourself again! While you are doing this, your ex boyfriend has went on with his life.
He is changing too.
Whether he wants to or not.
You are out of his life and is probably as miserable as you once was.
He probably has had some time to heal and feel positive also.
Give your ex a call and see if they want to go out for dinner or get a cup of coffee.
You both might be in shock how you both look! Remember when you first met and started dating? Get that old feeling back!