Have you found "the One" and didn't realize it until the relationship was over? Learning how to effectively get a lover back will help you get your love life back on track.
First you will need to examine what went wrong in your relationship, learn to admit your mistakes, make sure you have space in your life for the relationship, and lastly get your emotions under control BEFORE contacting your ex.
If you follow these steps, you will be on your way to developing a plan to get a lover back.
  Before you attempt to get a lover back, you need to take stock of the relationship.
What went wrong? I know you've already decided it is worth the effort of salvaging, so you need to understand why it fell apart if you aren't going to make the same mistake twice.
Think about the arguments you had over and over again and what those can tell you about why the relationship collapsed.
  Once you have an idea of what went wrong in your relationship, examine your part in the breakup.
Before you talk with your ex you need to be ready to admit the mistakes that you did make.
Admitting those mistakes shows that you have learned and grown from the relationship and will go a long way in helping you get a lover back.
  Do you have the time and space in your life for a relationship right now? If you don't, your partner will feel neglected and probably won't be patient and wait until you do.
Its better to wait until you can get your personal life in order and make space for the relationship than to rush back into something you can't commit to.
  Lastly, before you get back into contact with your ex, make sure you have your emotions under control at least publicly.
Trying to get a lover back is the most important thing to you right now, so don't blow it by pushing that special person farther away by begging and pleading with them.
If you aren't ready to calmly discuss what went wrong and admit your mistakes, give it some more time.