Are you feeling like you just can't get out of this mess you are in because your ex just doesn't seem to want you back? Of course you love your ex a lot, and maybe it took the breakup just for you to realize what you really lost.
Whatever the case, there are some critical things that you must do right now if you want your ex back.
Here is what you must do to get your ex back into your arms...
Are you miserable and at your lowest point? Well, re-read that, and see exactly how it sounds.
Is that attractive? No, it is not.
This is what your ex sees, that you are miserably pathetic without him/her.
They feel like you have just become a total loser now and hit a new low; and frankly will not see anything else you are trying to do now as long as this is how you are.
Lift yourself up around your ex, and focus on the best you can be! Does your ex control you? Do you put your ex on a pedestal and now your ex pretty much has you hanging by a string? You see, if you give that much care for your ex and attention; your ex can easily ignore you or say something asinine just to hurt you.
You see, when you are being desperate and annoyingly stalker-ish around your ex, he/she will do this just to hurt you and get you to go away.
Be the thing your ex cannot have- This is the only solution now, is to once and for all make your ex chase you.
As long as you are chasing your ex, they will not want you back, because you make yourself easily accessible and he/she is bored with you.
Remove your attention from your ex, stop contacting your ex.
Be as dry as you can towards your ex, and this will make them realize that they cannot have you so easily anymore.
This will drive your ex nuts to get you back, because it is like a huge rejection, which will hurt their ego so much that they will not stand losing you.