5 Proven Ways on How to Get Back With Your Ex
Love, love, love! Oh Love! How to overcome thee! The so called tie that binds us to each other especially in a man to woman relationship seem to be the most difficult and most cumbersome feeling to handle.
These are but fragile and need to be cultivated and nourished as it grow and flourish.
As sad as it can be break-ups do happen in relationships no matter how well established it is.
And they cause stress and tension and frustrations too.
Most of us feel that drive to get back at our exes when an unexpected break-up happens.
We want them to feel the pain we are feeling.
But, the question remains, is this the best step to take? It has been said that the best revenge is living well and this usually has the dual benefit of getting back at your ex as well as sometimes it serves to get your ex back into your life as well.
When you are doing well after a break-up, your ex sees you moving on with your life, they begin to realize how important you were to them.
So, pay attention to the following 5 tips for getting back at your ex, these are all tried and true methods for getting your ex back.
1-BE STRONG.
"No one needs the needy.
" This is another saying that applies perfectly to broken relationships.
A clingy, begging ex is the quickest turn-off there is.
Desperation looks good on no one.
There has never been, in recorded history, an ex who responded positively to a clinging, desperate attempt to rekindle a romance.
Men and women are simply not made that way.
When you act strong and move on to the next phase of your life, you ex will begin to wonder exactly what phase you are moving into and wonder why they aren't in it! 2-Stop communication with your ex to a minimum.
It may seem, on first glance, that when you are not communicating with your ex, that they will forget about you.
You want to speak with them in order to rekindle things.
But, this will not work.
Pay attention here, this is an important step in getting your ex back - take a break, stop calling and texting.
Soon enough, your ex will begin to wonder what is missing and they will realize how much they miss your contact.
3-Chill out.
Don't make demands or critical schedules they have to keep.
There is no reason to force a move out or a deadline to get their things.
Take it easy, listen to their problems and sympathize.
Don't add to them.
This will surprise your ex, not having seen this side of you in a while.
This is the type of thing that reminds them of the good times, when there wasn't a high level of stress between you two.
4-Get out of the house! Rekindle old friendships you may have let wither on the vine.
Join a club, pick up a hobby.
You don't have to date others, but don't sit around at home.
Let your ex wonder where you are.
5-Be yourself.
Remember that person you were before y'all got together? Your ex remembers that person and when he sees her again, he will remember why you fell in love with each other in the first place.
These are but fragile and need to be cultivated and nourished as it grow and flourish.
As sad as it can be break-ups do happen in relationships no matter how well established it is.
And they cause stress and tension and frustrations too.
Most of us feel that drive to get back at our exes when an unexpected break-up happens.
We want them to feel the pain we are feeling.
But, the question remains, is this the best step to take? It has been said that the best revenge is living well and this usually has the dual benefit of getting back at your ex as well as sometimes it serves to get your ex back into your life as well.
When you are doing well after a break-up, your ex sees you moving on with your life, they begin to realize how important you were to them.
So, pay attention to the following 5 tips for getting back at your ex, these are all tried and true methods for getting your ex back.
1-BE STRONG.
"No one needs the needy.
" This is another saying that applies perfectly to broken relationships.
A clingy, begging ex is the quickest turn-off there is.
Desperation looks good on no one.
There has never been, in recorded history, an ex who responded positively to a clinging, desperate attempt to rekindle a romance.
Men and women are simply not made that way.
When you act strong and move on to the next phase of your life, you ex will begin to wonder exactly what phase you are moving into and wonder why they aren't in it! 2-Stop communication with your ex to a minimum.
It may seem, on first glance, that when you are not communicating with your ex, that they will forget about you.
You want to speak with them in order to rekindle things.
But, this will not work.
Pay attention here, this is an important step in getting your ex back - take a break, stop calling and texting.
Soon enough, your ex will begin to wonder what is missing and they will realize how much they miss your contact.
3-Chill out.
Don't make demands or critical schedules they have to keep.
There is no reason to force a move out or a deadline to get their things.
Take it easy, listen to their problems and sympathize.
Don't add to them.
This will surprise your ex, not having seen this side of you in a while.
This is the type of thing that reminds them of the good times, when there wasn't a high level of stress between you two.
4-Get out of the house! Rekindle old friendships you may have let wither on the vine.
Join a club, pick up a hobby.
You don't have to date others, but don't sit around at home.
Let your ex wonder where you are.
5-Be yourself.
Remember that person you were before y'all got together? Your ex remembers that person and when he sees her again, he will remember why you fell in love with each other in the first place.
