Waiting for your ex to come back to you after a breakup is quite frustrating.
You have no idea if your ex would have the "sense" to come back to your loving arms.
It is natural for you to want your ex back because you feel that you still love your ex.
How then do you get your ex back when it seems that your ex have no plans of doing so? Stop your crying and start planning.
Keep it Cool - No one likes a stalker.
Don't get it to a point where your ex would actually make an effort to avoid you.
If you have to know what your ex is doing, don't make it so obvious.
However if you could help it, stop calling every hour and sending text messages nonstop.
These acts would only make you look desperate.
Assess why the breakup happened - It was your ex who initiated the breakup.
If it was up to you, you would have wanted to talk things over first.
Was it your fault that you split up? Do you know of incident or things that you said that could have hurt your ex? Make amends on wrong deeds that you have done to your ex.
Say you are sorry - Even if you feel and know that you didn't do anything to have caused the split.
Your ex couldn't possibly deny you the chance of saying how sorry you are.
If you set up a date so you could have a heart to heart talk and your ex refused, your apology would surely fall on deaf ears.
Change for the better - Don't be the same old "you" that your ex left.
It's no fun watching re-runs in TV just like it's no fun reading and re-reading a particular book.
It just get so tiring and boring.
Make the change and do yourself a favor.
Your ex might just see that you're one gem of a person to lose.