Why He Doesn"t Call - The Real Reasons
There are a lot of reasons why he doesn't call.
If he just got your number and hasn't called, and it's only been a few days, he still may.
A guy's timetable is different from ours.
Sometimes it is a couple of weeks before he calls for the first time.
If it's been a couple of weeks though and still he doesn't call, chances are good he is not going to.
He is just not really into you.
Chalk it up and move on.
No point in calling him, if he was interested he would call.
Don't make the mistake of making him more of a priority than he is making you.
Then we have the man who comes on strong in the beginning, calls and texts often, you go out on a few great dates and then nothing.
All communication stops and you are wondering what you did wrong.
You may even be making excuses for him in your head.
The reason he doesn't call you anymore in this situation is he has probably lost interest, and it may or may not be anything you did.
Guys live in the moment.
In the beginning all those chemicals are active, then when the dust settles, he thinks, whoa, what am I doing here, she is going to think I want a relationship and I am just not sure.
Last but not least is the sporadic caller.
He may call one week often, then go missing for a week or more.
This is the guy that is keeping his options open.
He is placing you on the back burner.
He calls in to check occasionally to make sure you are still there.
The reason he doesn't call consistently is because he sees you as just Miss Right now.
He is still looking for Miss Right, but wants to be sure if he gets the itch, you are there.
There are many reasons of course why he doesn't call, or why he stopped calling, but how you handle these calls is critical to determining where the relationship will or will not go.
It can make or break it.
If you start calling him, asking him why he doesn't call, you might as well close the casket, this one is dead.
This behavior is a huge attraction killer.
If he stopped calling or he doesn't call, let him be.
If he just got your number and hasn't called, and it's only been a few days, he still may.
A guy's timetable is different from ours.
Sometimes it is a couple of weeks before he calls for the first time.
If it's been a couple of weeks though and still he doesn't call, chances are good he is not going to.
He is just not really into you.
Chalk it up and move on.
No point in calling him, if he was interested he would call.
Don't make the mistake of making him more of a priority than he is making you.
Then we have the man who comes on strong in the beginning, calls and texts often, you go out on a few great dates and then nothing.
All communication stops and you are wondering what you did wrong.
You may even be making excuses for him in your head.
The reason he doesn't call you anymore in this situation is he has probably lost interest, and it may or may not be anything you did.
Guys live in the moment.
In the beginning all those chemicals are active, then when the dust settles, he thinks, whoa, what am I doing here, she is going to think I want a relationship and I am just not sure.
Last but not least is the sporadic caller.
He may call one week often, then go missing for a week or more.
This is the guy that is keeping his options open.
He is placing you on the back burner.
He calls in to check occasionally to make sure you are still there.
The reason he doesn't call consistently is because he sees you as just Miss Right now.
He is still looking for Miss Right, but wants to be sure if he gets the itch, you are there.
There are many reasons of course why he doesn't call, or why he stopped calling, but how you handle these calls is critical to determining where the relationship will or will not go.
It can make or break it.
If you start calling him, asking him why he doesn't call, you might as well close the casket, this one is dead.
This behavior is a huge attraction killer.
If he stopped calling or he doesn't call, let him be.
