If You Want Your Ex Boyfriend Back - Forget His Phone Number And Completely Ignore Him
A breakup can leave you in a very vulnerable condition. With your heart breaking, feeling unwanted and rejected, you will take any notice from your ex boyfriend as a sign he still loves you. If he calls, you will almost break your neck to get to the phone and you will answer any emails right away. But, if you want to get your ex back, forget his phone number and email address.
When a guy breaks up with you the last thing he wants is to talk to you. He knows you will beg and cry and that will make him uncomfortable. So, he will try to avoid you in every way possible. Having an ex boyfriend stay in contact with you will give you hope, but if you knew the reason he was staying in contact with you, it wouldn't make you so hopeful of getting your ex back.
You see, your ex boyfriend is staying in contact with you because he has a plan for using you. He wants you to have hope so he can keep you on a string and know you will be sitting at home waiting for his call. That is why he calls you now and then and might even take you on an occasional date. He wants to keep you from going out and meeting anyone else because he wants to keep you as his backup girlfriend.
By having you as a backup or safety net, he can go out and date other women. He feels safe because if nothing works out he will have you to catch him when he falls. But, if he meets someone that really turns him on, he will drop you in a minute. Suddenly you will stop getting phone calls and emails from him and if you call him, he will hang up on you.
If you love the guy and want any kind of a future with him, stop taking his phone calls and answering his emails. Ignore your ex boyfriend and stop sitting around waiting for him to throw you a crumb of affection. Show him you don't need him and get on with your life. Get a new hair style and buy some hot new clothes.
Now that you are looking desirable, show your ex boyfriend why you have not been taking his calls or answering his emails. You know where he hangs out, so arrange to run into him 'accidentally'. When he sees you, he will be shocked and want to talk.Tell him you are in a hurry, but you will call him. This puts you in control and he will be waiting for your call.
By showing him you don't intend to be his backup girlfriend any longer, your ex boyfriend will realize he really is in love with you. He will have stop playing games and decide if he wants to be your guy completely or not at all. Whatever he decides will be better for you than being his backup girlfriend.
When a guy breaks up with you the last thing he wants is to talk to you. He knows you will beg and cry and that will make him uncomfortable. So, he will try to avoid you in every way possible. Having an ex boyfriend stay in contact with you will give you hope, but if you knew the reason he was staying in contact with you, it wouldn't make you so hopeful of getting your ex back.
You see, your ex boyfriend is staying in contact with you because he has a plan for using you. He wants you to have hope so he can keep you on a string and know you will be sitting at home waiting for his call. That is why he calls you now and then and might even take you on an occasional date. He wants to keep you from going out and meeting anyone else because he wants to keep you as his backup girlfriend.
By having you as a backup or safety net, he can go out and date other women. He feels safe because if nothing works out he will have you to catch him when he falls. But, if he meets someone that really turns him on, he will drop you in a minute. Suddenly you will stop getting phone calls and emails from him and if you call him, he will hang up on you.
If you love the guy and want any kind of a future with him, stop taking his phone calls and answering his emails. Ignore your ex boyfriend and stop sitting around waiting for him to throw you a crumb of affection. Show him you don't need him and get on with your life. Get a new hair style and buy some hot new clothes.
Now that you are looking desirable, show your ex boyfriend why you have not been taking his calls or answering his emails. You know where he hangs out, so arrange to run into him 'accidentally'. When he sees you, he will be shocked and want to talk.Tell him you are in a hurry, but you will call him. This puts you in control and he will be waiting for your call.
By showing him you don't intend to be his backup girlfriend any longer, your ex boyfriend will realize he really is in love with you. He will have stop playing games and decide if he wants to be your guy completely or not at all. Whatever he decides will be better for you than being his backup girlfriend.
