Sometimes it is difficult to tell if a man is 'The One' is it not? Some people insist that they always knew he was 'The One' - right up until they break up acrimoniously! For some people every relationship will feel like The One.
Whilst that may seem very hard on the heart, each relationship will teach you something new about what you need in a good relationship, what your new standards are, your capacity to love and what you wish the other person to bring to the relationship.
Here are some clues as to whether your search has ended, although of course whilst you may feel this way you will be dealing with another separate human being who may decide that HIS search has not ended.
You cannot legislate for that.
1.
You do things for each other that makes you happy doing them.
In other words, his happiness brings you great happiness.
2.
When they are around you feel secure and happy.
3.
You smile without knowing you are doing so when they come into view, into the room or come home.
They return the compliment.
4.
Despite difficulties, there was never any thoughts of bailing out.
Their bad was your bad.
Their good was your good.
5.
There are few pressures straining the relationship and your temperaments seem to fit like a glove.
There are no untoward and unnecessary dramas and yet at the same time the relationship has not become boring.
6.
You begin to notice that you finish each other sentences.
You are both on the same page basically.
7.
you do not feel that anything you are requested to do is a sacrifice.