You want to get back together with your ex! Saying it is the simple part, but actually doing it? That's where things get hard.
But it needed be this way.
Remember when you first got together with them? There was none of the pain and anxiety you are feeling now.
It was easy! And it can be that way again! The following guide will introduce you to jealousy, and the other common reasons that prevent people from getting back with their ex! Jealousy - Hey, it's the first word in the article title for a reason! It's the number one reason why you will fail to get your ex back.
What makes it so hard to combat, is that its natural to feel it! Particularly when you see your ex getting on with their life without you.
Whether they are exploring a new relationship with another, or just trying exciting things.
You see them having fun, while all the while you feel miserable.
Simply, there's no bigger kick to the guts in the relationship game.
But act on those feelings, and you'll do is present the worst side of yourself to the very person you want to get back! Don't Try to Belittle Them - You want to remind your ex just what hot stuff you are, but the way to go about that is not by making them feel less about themselves! Think to when the two of you first got together.
You didn't try to make them feel insecure then.
Instead, they found you desirable because they complemented you, and you them, and that in turn made both of you feel good! Control Yourself, Not Them - If you want to get your ex back, do not try to manipulate their behavior.
They will recognize what you are doing and resent you for it.
Think about it, would you want to be with someone who was manipulating you?