In Love With My Female Friend - What Can You Do to Make Her Feel The Same Way?
It's a pretty common scenario that almost every guy can relate to at some point in their lives. You have a female friend that you really want to be more than friends with, you are in love with her, and you want to find a way to get her to feel the same way. Most guys that get caught up in this kind of a situation never really figure a way to get out of it, they usually just end up pouring out their heart at the wrong time and end up feeling like a fool. Luckily, there is a better way and you do not have to end up feeling like a fool, you can win her over and make her feel the same way you do.
Here's how you can make your female friend fall in love with you:
1. If she is going to feel the same way about you, then you need to distance yourself from her for a little while.
This is the easiest way to change the way that she sees you. And you do have to change the way that she sees you and thinks about you if you are going to make her fall in love with you. When you take a little time off from the friendship, it gives you the opportunity to "reinvent" yourself, as well as it gives her the time to realize that maybe she does miss you a lot and her feelings are stronger than she thinks they are.
2. You have to be able to change the way that you interact with her, if you are going to make her fall in love.
Contrary to what movies and feel good novels tell us, women really don't fall in love with guys that act like their best friend all that often. And when they do, it's usually because they are in "settle down mode" and they are no longer interested in hitting the dating scene anymore. You need to act like a guy who is into her as more than just a friend, you cannot be the kind of guy that acts like her best friend and then hope that this will make her love you, at least, not in a romantic way.
3. You need to start to work on seducing her, little by little.
As you change the way that she sees you and the way that you act around her, you are going to have to work on seducing her, so that she cannot stop thinking about you, and so that she feels the same exact emotions that you do. This is when you really need to be able to separate the friendship from what you are really trying to accomplish.
Here's how you can make your female friend fall in love with you:
1. If she is going to feel the same way about you, then you need to distance yourself from her for a little while.
This is the easiest way to change the way that she sees you. And you do have to change the way that she sees you and thinks about you if you are going to make her fall in love with you. When you take a little time off from the friendship, it gives you the opportunity to "reinvent" yourself, as well as it gives her the time to realize that maybe she does miss you a lot and her feelings are stronger than she thinks they are.
2. You have to be able to change the way that you interact with her, if you are going to make her fall in love.
Contrary to what movies and feel good novels tell us, women really don't fall in love with guys that act like their best friend all that often. And when they do, it's usually because they are in "settle down mode" and they are no longer interested in hitting the dating scene anymore. You need to act like a guy who is into her as more than just a friend, you cannot be the kind of guy that acts like her best friend and then hope that this will make her love you, at least, not in a romantic way.
3. You need to start to work on seducing her, little by little.
As you change the way that she sees you and the way that you act around her, you are going to have to work on seducing her, so that she cannot stop thinking about you, and so that she feels the same exact emotions that you do. This is when you really need to be able to separate the friendship from what you are really trying to accomplish.
