Trying to figure out how to get their ex back is a problem many guys wind up dealing with.
Do You Want Your Girlfriend Back After She Dumped You? Before you make that big decision to get her back, think real hard if that is what you really want.
Did she leave you? Was it something you did that made her angry or was it a misunderstanding? Obviously something went wrong and is it something that can be overcome.
Sometimes guys feel it is easier to keep the relationship instead of letting it go because it's easier to deal with than finding a new girlfriend.
Maybe it is better to let it go and start over with a new girl, you may find someone else that you are more compatible with.
But if you decide you want your ex back you do have some options.
Your ex may be having second thoughts about this breakup if the issue was not something serious.
She may have acted impulsively then regretted the move.
If you can determine this your chances of succeeding are very good.
While you are trying to figure out what to do after she left you, do not keep calling her begging her to come back.
This will belittle you, making her feel she has some power over you.
Just leave her alone for a few weeks until everyone calms down.
If you guys hang out at the same places, you are going to see her at some point.
If you have the same friends, this gives you a way to check up on her, and she can check on you too.
Try dating but don't get serious with anyone, this will show your ex that you have moved on and are comfortable.
She will start to get curious about you when you are out enjoying yourself.