As Asian men, we sometimes feel that the odds are stacked against us when it comes to dating attractive women.
Hollywood seems to be content portraying these stereotypes of Asian guys as either Kung Fu masters or nerdy computer geeks.
Oh yeah, we're also short and we lack somewhat in the penile department.
Or at least that's what mainstream media is telling everyone.
Yep, it's not always easy being an Asian guy and wanting to date attractive women.
It's true that negative stereotypes are affecting many guys success with women, but even more so it's the lack of confidence and belief in ourselves that is the real culprit.
Many Asian men that I have met and coached over the years, seems to have adapted this mindset, that they are somehow not good enough.
That's a terrible place to be and will only lead to more loneliness and frustration.
The truth is that I and many other Asian guys have no problems picking up attractive women of any race; and we are not particularly tall or good looking either.
Daniel Rose said it best in his book 'The Sex God Method'.
With sexual confidence, the confidence that you can satisfy any woman, comes general confidence.
When you firmly believe that you are the man, when you firmly believe that you have what any woman want, then it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy.
Sexual confidence is at the heart of male confidence.
Learning to be comfortable with who you are is the first step/ The best way to get better with women fast is to talk, listen and hang out with guys who are already good with women.
Some guys may be reluctant to share their 'secrets', while others may even want to charge you for it.