Getting Your Ex Back - Be Aware of These Mistakes If You Want to Make Your Ex Fall For You Again!
The reason why most people do not manage to get back together with an ex is because they make very common mistakes.
Here is a listing of mistakes to avoid if you try to get an ex back.
Of course, your mind is confused because, evidently, you want to do whatever it takes to accomplish your goal.
But you need to know what mistakes to avoid if you try to get an ex back.
If you are not aware of it you will likely make the same mistakes as just about anybody else.
Harassing your ex will not get you to your goal.
This mistake is definitely on top of the list of mistakes to avoid when trying to get an ex back.
Harassing just never works.
You need to put an immediate hold on your efforts trying to contact him.
All you accomplish if you keep harassing them is that she or he is just going to feel more and more that the break up was justified and that they are lucky to get rid of you.
Trying to stay in touch like that will make them see that you are just a desperate crazy person and that they are better of without you.
At this point you need to respect the decision they made and they must see that you respect that decision.
If you plead or beg to give it one more try she or he is again going to feel that you have no respect for whatever decision they make for themselves.
You need to show that you do respect this decision.
Just telling that you respect it does not work.
What you do is more likely to get through to them than what you say.
Although it is OK to apologize for what went wrong and to take all blame later on, it is not at this point.
Right now it would only make it appear how desperate you are to stay together and how little respect you have for their decision.
No matter what caused the break up, this is not the time to make them feel bad about themselves.
Even if it would make her or him stay with you, which is highly unlikely, would you want them to stay just because they feel guilty and not because of how much they love you? Do not lower yourself to that level.
It will not create a path to a long lasting relationship.
It would only give you a little more time with your ex and eventually she or he would hate you for it.
Here is a listing of mistakes to avoid if you try to get an ex back.
Of course, your mind is confused because, evidently, you want to do whatever it takes to accomplish your goal.
But you need to know what mistakes to avoid if you try to get an ex back.
If you are not aware of it you will likely make the same mistakes as just about anybody else.
Harassing your ex will not get you to your goal.
This mistake is definitely on top of the list of mistakes to avoid when trying to get an ex back.
Harassing just never works.
You need to put an immediate hold on your efforts trying to contact him.
All you accomplish if you keep harassing them is that she or he is just going to feel more and more that the break up was justified and that they are lucky to get rid of you.
Trying to stay in touch like that will make them see that you are just a desperate crazy person and that they are better of without you.
At this point you need to respect the decision they made and they must see that you respect that decision.
If you plead or beg to give it one more try she or he is again going to feel that you have no respect for whatever decision they make for themselves.
You need to show that you do respect this decision.
Just telling that you respect it does not work.
What you do is more likely to get through to them than what you say.
Although it is OK to apologize for what went wrong and to take all blame later on, it is not at this point.
Right now it would only make it appear how desperate you are to stay together and how little respect you have for their decision.
No matter what caused the break up, this is not the time to make them feel bad about themselves.
Even if it would make her or him stay with you, which is highly unlikely, would you want them to stay just because they feel guilty and not because of how much they love you? Do not lower yourself to that level.
It will not create a path to a long lasting relationship.
It would only give you a little more time with your ex and eventually she or he would hate you for it.
