Losing a loved one is tremendously painful.
Believe me, I've been there.
However, I also recovered and really worked hard to get my ex back.
YOU can do it too if you stay calm and purposeful.
Follow my steps and I guarantee you'll have a great chance.
Step 1 Try to stay calm.
I know this is going to be hard for you to do at the moment but it is essential for your success.
If you act in jealousy or anger you really run the risk of driving your ex away altogether.
Make getting your ex back your incentive for staying calm.
Step 2 It is best to keep your distance from your ex for a while.
I know this sounds counterproductive, "surely if I want them back I need to contact them quick?" In fact, most people go over board in contacting their ex and portray a needy and desperate character which actually deters their ex.
A bit of time away will give you time to regroup and think up a plan.
Step 3 Try to think about exactly why you want your ex back and what they want from you.
Why did the relationship fail? Is it something that can be worked on easily? If you think you still want to go for it, you'll need to come up with a plan on showing your ex that you can improve for them.
THIS is the hard part.
Most people do not know how to do this properly and only make things worse.
I recommend this guide on how get my ex-back.
It worked for me and for many others.