It" s Not Just Meeting Women, It"s Meeting The Women That Want To Be Met
Do you want to meet women who will think you're cute and pat you on the head or do you want to meet women who are interesting, ready to find new people to interact with, and are open to the possibility of just about anything? Women who you try to pick up in grocery stores, the cafe, the ice cream parlor, and all kinds of regular everyday places are not necessarily there to talk to anyone at all, let alone a cute little horny guy like you. So where do you go to meet women who are truly ready to open up and get to know someone knew without ever having to ask them out on a date?
Get busy and get out there. If you want to find women you need to start getting involved in activities that seriously attract women. This doesn't mean you have to run right out and sign up for the latest cooking class, but it is certainly an option. Women have opened themselves up to more and more challenges, and they are becoming more interesting because of it. They are pushing themselves to learn the things that they have always wanted to know but haven't had the chance. So if you are looking to meet women who are interested in meeting other people and who are out there taking a bite out of life, then you have to go to them because they aren't waiting around for you any longer.
Clubs and bars have always offered a fairly safe environment for a guy to hit on a woman. If he is wrong, and she is with someone, the mistake is understandable. Sometimes. But really, this avenue is becoming so mundane for women that they have actually taken the dating scene away from the clubs and bars after the age of twenty three. Instead they are out there learning. They are taking night classes on everything from pottery to relationships to reiki to personal massage. They are taking adventure courses and learning to kayak and take mountain biking tours and running with the best of the guys along the surf. They are out there in the world taking dance lessons and learning to swim for the first time in their lives. All of these women are out there living life without a guy and have stopped feeling down on themselves for being without a guy.
The absolute best kind of woman to meet for the long haul is a woman who doesn't feel she is in need of a guy. Women who are still trying to please their mothers and who are trying to figure out why they sit half drunk at the bar every weekend are putting down their drinking glasses and finding new ways to live. All it really takes for a guy to enter their lives in the right opportunity and the right timing. If you are the only straight guy in dance class then you are looking at the largest pick of the litter scenario your little heart could ever desire.
When you enter any situation with a bunch of women who are learning new things and living it up, check hands first and get a sense of who is married and who is not. Not being married doesn't necessarily mean that they aren't involved, but not being married also means that there are more possibilities for them and they are looking. During the pre and post class times, talk with women, get to know them and why they are there. Make fun of being the only straight guy, if applicable, and really laugh at yourself and show them how you are awesome to step out.
Don't just step out into the land of adventure and education and self improvement just to find a date. You can actually end up with a continual growing list of friends to keep your social life hopping as long as you aren't too rude about coming on to women and that you are the all around good guy that isn't putting anyone off. Having a long and active list of friends can be just as rewarding, not to mention useful, as running with loads of single women. It's really intriguing when one of your friends decides to set you up.
When you get out into the world, don't get so hung up on meeting women that you forget to enjoy yourself. You are paying good money to learn something new so why not really learn it while you're there. Just relax and have some fun. Things can unfold pretty naturally from there.
Get busy and get out there. If you want to find women you need to start getting involved in activities that seriously attract women. This doesn't mean you have to run right out and sign up for the latest cooking class, but it is certainly an option. Women have opened themselves up to more and more challenges, and they are becoming more interesting because of it. They are pushing themselves to learn the things that they have always wanted to know but haven't had the chance. So if you are looking to meet women who are interested in meeting other people and who are out there taking a bite out of life, then you have to go to them because they aren't waiting around for you any longer.
Clubs and bars have always offered a fairly safe environment for a guy to hit on a woman. If he is wrong, and she is with someone, the mistake is understandable. Sometimes. But really, this avenue is becoming so mundane for women that they have actually taken the dating scene away from the clubs and bars after the age of twenty three. Instead they are out there learning. They are taking night classes on everything from pottery to relationships to reiki to personal massage. They are taking adventure courses and learning to kayak and take mountain biking tours and running with the best of the guys along the surf. They are out there in the world taking dance lessons and learning to swim for the first time in their lives. All of these women are out there living life without a guy and have stopped feeling down on themselves for being without a guy.
The absolute best kind of woman to meet for the long haul is a woman who doesn't feel she is in need of a guy. Women who are still trying to please their mothers and who are trying to figure out why they sit half drunk at the bar every weekend are putting down their drinking glasses and finding new ways to live. All it really takes for a guy to enter their lives in the right opportunity and the right timing. If you are the only straight guy in dance class then you are looking at the largest pick of the litter scenario your little heart could ever desire.
When you enter any situation with a bunch of women who are learning new things and living it up, check hands first and get a sense of who is married and who is not. Not being married doesn't necessarily mean that they aren't involved, but not being married also means that there are more possibilities for them and they are looking. During the pre and post class times, talk with women, get to know them and why they are there. Make fun of being the only straight guy, if applicable, and really laugh at yourself and show them how you are awesome to step out.
Don't just step out into the land of adventure and education and self improvement just to find a date. You can actually end up with a continual growing list of friends to keep your social life hopping as long as you aren't too rude about coming on to women and that you are the all around good guy that isn't putting anyone off. Having a long and active list of friends can be just as rewarding, not to mention useful, as running with loads of single women. It's really intriguing when one of your friends decides to set you up.
When you get out into the world, don't get so hung up on meeting women that you forget to enjoy yourself. You are paying good money to learn something new so why not really learn it while you're there. Just relax and have some fun. Things can unfold pretty naturally from there.
