The cause of many breakups is boredom. The man you love begins taking you for granted because he knows that when he calls, you will be waiting by the phone. Think of how different he would treat you if you were less available and more of a mystery to him. You can do that by using these expert tips to regain his love.

In the first days following a breakup, you will be obsessed with getting your ex back. Nothing else will matter. This will be your most crucial time. Your emotions will be running at an all time high and your instincts will be to call him and unload on him. This would be a very big mistake because his emotions are running high right now too and any attempt to talk to him will end up in disaster and could ruin any future chance of a reconciliation. Instead of running off in every direction, you need to sit down and think.

If you truly love him and want to regain his love, you can get your ex boyfriend back by pushing his emotional hot buttons. This might sound complicated to you, but you should know every one of his hot buttons by now. In fact, that is how you got him in the first place. Think back to what attracted him to you to begin with and the things he has told you he likes about you. These are his emotional hot buttons. These are what turned him on to you. If it worked once, it will work again.

But, before you can get your ex boyfriend back by pushing his emotional hot buttons, you have to find out what turned him off enough to make him break up with you. If you know what it was, then you need to find a way to remedy it. If you do not know what it was, you have some thinking to do. Do not think you can call your ex and ask him what the problem was because he will not tell you and it will just make matters worse. This is something you have to work out yourself so that when you do get him back, it will not cause the same problems again.

Once you have come up with an answer as to what caused the breakup and you have had no contact with him for several weeks, it will be time to get your ex boyfriend back by pushing his emotional hot buttons. This should be pretty easy because you only have to become the woman he fell in love with at the start and use the same tactics you used then. Men are really simple creatures. They always want something they cannot have. This is what got him hot for you to begin with. You must have seemed unattainable to him. If you have not had any contact with him for several weeks, he is probably thinking you do not care for him anymore. This will make you a challenge to him again and you are well on your way to getting your ex back.