Hello Heartbroken, So you're convinced you and your ex share the same picture of what love and caring is supposed to look like? Well then - I'd urge you to do what you need to do to win back your love.
But before going further though, just be completely aware: Even though you have your reasons to think getting back your ex is right for both of you - there are probably many more reasons why you need to eave them alone.
So try to be realistic about why your ex should have a change of heart about you...
Well, after you have done the above soul-searching and if you are still convinced you two are "meant to be" then go ahead and try to win them back your love.
It's important to realize at this stage though, that to win back your love, your next best move is to: Get to Work - On You You heard it before - the only person in the world you are really able to fix is you...
For example, with a child, you can begin at an early age to mold their character the way you know will benefit them for life.
On the other hand, if you are degenerate and proceed to be a bad example for them, the day will come when they may "wise up" to you, and most likely, will eventually shun you.
With an adult, the most you can attempt to do is throw out a few suggestions, but a danger still exists they may resent your intrusion, and the relationship can go down the tubes from there.
So save yourself the angst of wanting to fix your ex; especially over the telephone.
After a break up, you can literally make yourself sick wondering who they are sleeping with.
But take a higher road; accept responsibility for the improvement of you, and then get to work as follows: a.
Sharpen your mind.
b.
Sharpen your attitude.
c.
Sharpen your appearance.
d.
Sharpen your acquaintances.
e.
Sharpen your view of the world.
As you go about the modifications of you, don't dwell on why you are doing it - assert that the reason you are improving you is entirely for your benefit.
If you and your ex never get back together - a probability you may need to come to grips with - accomplishing the new you will still be a significant benefit.
So prepare for for a personality upgrade with the zeal of a shark honing in on dinner.
Then if you and your ex make up, they'll be thrilled to have the new and improved you in their life.
Remember you don't need to be religious to pray for a make-up miracle - and making up usually requires a miracle.
But it'll stick best with a remake of you to win back your love for the rest of your lives.
Your are both so well worth the work, and you'll both be so glad that you did! Sincerely, Joshua.