Win your Ex Girlfriend's Heart Again
You are longing for her. She is always on your mind, this woman who was once a part of your life. What can you do to get her back? Do not worry, there is always something you can do.
It's always a common problem for men to rekindle the relationship they had with their girlfriend, and there is no definite answer on how to do it.
You have to consider several concerns before you make a move. You can start by thinking why your girlfriend broke up with you. Do you spend time with her regularly or were you always with your friends? Do you remember and greet her during special occasions like your anniversary, birthday or even monthsary?
All of these can hinder you, but it can all be surpassed. Remember that you had won her heart before, and it's not impossible to do that again.
First of all, try not to do anything crazy like pleading at her. She might just get annoyed by this. You're just giving her the impression that you do not have any idea what to do to make up for the mistakes you did. She might also lose the last strand of respect she has for you along with the respect you have for yourself.
Ask her if it's fine with her to talk with you over dinner in a nice restaurant. A place with a noisy ambiance like that of a bar is not a smart choice. You can also bring her to a place where both of you used to hang out. Your aim here is to explain your side clearly and completely that's why there's a need for a quiet place.
If you are guilty of something, start by apologizing. Be specific on what mistakes you have done and how you will fix them.
Emphasize that you two shared a wonderful relationship that it will be too bad not to fix a problem together.
Another way is by using the help of another person. You can ask her best friend to say "(your name) misses you so much. He always talks about you".
An indirect statement could be for a friend to say "There are lots of good relationships out there that just ended without being given a second chance." Then continue with, "it will be a shame to end up that way too".
Once they tell you that there was a positive reaction with your girlfriend after they said that, act fast and do not let this opportunity get away.
You have now established a connection, what is your next step? Be sure to have a plan. Unless your the type of person who can come up with an idea in an instant, you must know your next move.
You can use the "Ho-Hum Formula" which is used for public speaking. Make an attention-grabbing introduction so that you will know you have her ears. Proceed with the body of your message (explaining all the things you would like to say) then close it with your plans or suggestions on how you can fix your relationship.
One thing you want to see while talking with her is a positive response. Once you see this, grab the opportunity and ask for a reconciliation.
Unless you have really made a huge mistake before, you should be successful with your reconciliation plan. If you have stated your case very well and promised to change for the better, you can expect the answer you are waiting for.
You may not get her answer quickly but don't worry. Girls are just like that. They want to weigh first all the pros and cons of getting back with you. Also, they don't want to appear like they're some kind of an "easy girl" even though they really want to be with you again.
It's always a common problem for men to rekindle the relationship they had with their girlfriend, and there is no definite answer on how to do it.
You have to consider several concerns before you make a move. You can start by thinking why your girlfriend broke up with you. Do you spend time with her regularly or were you always with your friends? Do you remember and greet her during special occasions like your anniversary, birthday or even monthsary?
All of these can hinder you, but it can all be surpassed. Remember that you had won her heart before, and it's not impossible to do that again.
First of all, try not to do anything crazy like pleading at her. She might just get annoyed by this. You're just giving her the impression that you do not have any idea what to do to make up for the mistakes you did. She might also lose the last strand of respect she has for you along with the respect you have for yourself.
Ask her if it's fine with her to talk with you over dinner in a nice restaurant. A place with a noisy ambiance like that of a bar is not a smart choice. You can also bring her to a place where both of you used to hang out. Your aim here is to explain your side clearly and completely that's why there's a need for a quiet place.
If you are guilty of something, start by apologizing. Be specific on what mistakes you have done and how you will fix them.
Emphasize that you two shared a wonderful relationship that it will be too bad not to fix a problem together.
Another way is by using the help of another person. You can ask her best friend to say "(your name) misses you so much. He always talks about you".
An indirect statement could be for a friend to say "There are lots of good relationships out there that just ended without being given a second chance." Then continue with, "it will be a shame to end up that way too".
Once they tell you that there was a positive reaction with your girlfriend after they said that, act fast and do not let this opportunity get away.
You have now established a connection, what is your next step? Be sure to have a plan. Unless your the type of person who can come up with an idea in an instant, you must know your next move.
You can use the "Ho-Hum Formula" which is used for public speaking. Make an attention-grabbing introduction so that you will know you have her ears. Proceed with the body of your message (explaining all the things you would like to say) then close it with your plans or suggestions on how you can fix your relationship.
One thing you want to see while talking with her is a positive response. Once you see this, grab the opportunity and ask for a reconciliation.
Unless you have really made a huge mistake before, you should be successful with your reconciliation plan. If you have stated your case very well and promised to change for the better, you can expect the answer you are waiting for.
You may not get her answer quickly but don't worry. Girls are just like that. They want to weigh first all the pros and cons of getting back with you. Also, they don't want to appear like they're some kind of an "easy girl" even though they really want to be with you again.
